30Fayetteville, United States
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My self-summary
I would rather say in person, but I'll give you the short version. I am an energetic, creative, talkative, adventurous, laid back country girl with a city flair. For me it's an easy jump from riding horses, rock climbing, camping and fishing... to more sophisticated things like ballroom dancing, spoken word poetry and writing music. I write for a living and love it. I am extremely independent and I know exactly what I want in life and in a partner. I can take care of myself and I won't date anyone who can't do the same. If you live with your mom for any reason besides that she needs your help or she'll be homeless, I am not interested. If you don't know who you are or what you want to do with your life, please move on to someone just as confused. That isn't me.
What I’m doing with my life
During the day I am a writer and Media Manager for The Vine Ministries. In the evening I am a ballroom dance instructor who occasionally does a haircut or two. It's a fun life indeed!
I’m really good at
Reading people, making sarcastic jokes, playing board games, painting with acrylics or oils, writing poetry and lyrics, and drinking enough coffee and Coke to kill a person.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am nothing like what I appear. Most say I look like a stuck up snob, but in reality I am one of the most tender hearted people I know. I can't stand snobs or anyone who needs to make themselves feel better by hurting another person. For the more shallow folk, my hair is the first thing I get comments on. This is where I take a moment to thank the stylist that fried my hair off so I had no choice but to have short hair. Best ... mistake....ever. Probably never growing it back out!!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Fearless by Max Lucado, Re-Orient, Unshakable, The Scarlet Letter, Divine Detours,

Movies: The Voice, Heroes, X Factor, One Upon A Time, Seinfeld, The Phantom of the Opera, Les Miserables, Ever After, The Princess Bride, Watchmen, Man of Steel

Shows: Smallville, Heroes, Once Upon a Time, The Voice, The X Factor, Seinfeld

Music: Jeff Buckley, Fleet Foxes, Rilo Kiley, Sia, Of Monsters and Men, Tallest Man on Earth, Bright Eyes, Connor Oberst, Nick Drake, M. Ward, Bon Iver, Frank Sinatra, Michael Buble, Amos Lee,Grizzly Bear, My Morning Jacket, Wilco, Okkervil River, The Shins, Iron and Wine, Ane Brun, Joshua James, Arcade Fire, Band of Horses

Food: Spaghetti, and anything else with noodles in it. I love sushi, broccoli and cheese casserole my grandma makes, chocolate chip cookies, and home made bread. Actually I like pretty much everything except for brussel sprouts, mussels, clams, scallops, or squid. Not a fan of anything slimy! Or anything that is still bleeding! lol
Six things I could never do without
My family
My friends
My medium Coca-Cola with light ice, from Sonic. (I am only picky about coke!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the end of the world, what people will say about me at my funeral, how I can make myself better, how I can love others better, the glorious sounds of music, what my children will look like. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging with my friends watching a movie, having a Heroes marathon, painting, or the occasional night on the town. I'm getting too old for much of that anymore lol.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that I think it's ridiculous that technology has taken all the fun out of dating and turned it into an online meat market for the most part. It's a sad day in America when people find it easier to tell a computer the truth than an actual person.
You should message me if
you're not a jerk, you want a long term relationship, you have a steady job, you aren't afraid of the truth, you like to talk about just about anything, and you are capable of writing complete sentences that actually make sense. Some folks on here need to learn what punctuation and run-on sentences are! Bad grammar drives me nuts.
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