59Tuckahoe, United States
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My self-summary
A gentleman, young in mind, body and heart. I am a deep well of inner strength who eschews rigidity.
An NYC native who has lived abroad and loves to travel, my interests range from the cultural, creative and intellectual to the physical and spontaneous. I prefer to participate and am drawn to those who express themselves with talent.
Taking the positive from my experiences, finding the good in people and humor in daily life feeds my optimism and I take the time to smell the roses.
My family is very important to me and integrity governs my actions.
I love spending time by any body of water but also enjoy nights in the city, whether with friends or wandering on my own, observing its spectacle.
I have a worldly outlook but am happy doing simple things.
What I’m doing with my life
After a long tenure in IT management, I'm now focusing on real estate.
I also enjoy writing and hope to publish a novel one day. So many experiences to draw from. Trying not to be transparently autobiographical.
Bicycling, distance running, skiing, tennis, working out and dancing keep me fit.
I make the most of the time I have with my ten year old when she is with me. Laughter, play, art and music take up our time. Watching her learn and grow is an amazing experience from which I am learning as much as she.
I’m really good at
Building, re-purposing things, cooking, perhaps dancing.

Communicating, appreciating what matters, remaining calm during troubling times, getting excited about the good that comes my way.

Knowing the right time to ignore my age.
The first things people usually notice about me
My unassuming confidence, manners, sense of style and the way I put people at ease.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most of John Irving's work, Marquez, Rilke, Hardy, Stendhal, Tolstoy, James Ellroy, Bukovski, Vonnegut Jr., etc.
I enjoyed Mad Men, John Stewart/Colbert, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire, True Detective (Season 1) and even some of the shows that my daughter watches. Phineas and Pherb used to crack me up.
Most recently, I enjoyed The Drop, Calvary and A Most Violent Year.
Depending on mood, I listen to many different genres of music.

Hungry one Saturday morning when I was seven, I taught myself how to make pancakes while my folks slept. This led to a lifetime of culinary interest and enjoyment. I will gladly try any food that is well prepared and love Mediterranean cuisine.
Six things I could never do without
Family and friends, laughter, passion for and with the right woman, good music, travel, the time to reflect.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
We are witnessing so many things that will reverberate in the coming years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either doing something that's kid friendly or out with friends, reading, writing, learning to play the bass.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I recently chose to sport a beard.
You should message me if
If anything I wrote strikes a chord. The age range I selected isn't stringent but can you keep up with me?
The two of us