37Goshen, United States
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My self-summary
Most of my friends know me as the nice guy that goes to the fridge to get drinks for everyone. I'm a challenging opponent, but I play games for fun and don't focus on the competition.

I'm by far the youngest in my family and my 12 nieces and nephews are closer in age to me than my brother and sisters. We get together for holidays and summer camp. Every once in a while I can talk someone into a board game.

I have:
- my own apartment
- a car
- a great family
- a beard
- a sense of humor

I do NOT have:
- any addictions
- any STDs
- any debt
- six-pack abs
- full head of hair
What I’m doing with my life
I keep busy playing games, getting out with local friends, and helping family. I don't really enjoy bars and that seems to be the only place to meet people these days.
I’m really good at
Figuring out other people's motivations and relating. Working with numbers. Solving complex problems in creative ways. I know my way around computers.
The first things people usually notice about me
buzzed/bald head, Scruffy with glasses, taller than most with barrel chest (lots of swimming when I was younger), working my weight back down but still have a bigger gut than I would like. A nerdy lumberjack but not in a hipster way.

People can also usually tell quickly that I care a lot about other people--I'm considerate--I do little things to be helpful and am friendly to others. I have a smile to greet you even when things are going pretty awful for me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Shakespeare, oldschool Dragonlance, non-fiction technical applicable, I end up reading a lot of fantasy that I don't particularly care for because of recommendations from friends =P

Princess Bride, Gattaca, Unbreakable, The Village (oddly, I watch this as a romance and not a thriller that most people see it as), Dark City, Stranger than Fiction, The Dark Crystal, Run Lola Run, Nacho Libre, Edward Scissorhands, Sneakers, Star Wars, Star Trek

Firefly, Game of Thrones (Song of Ice and Fire), Naruto, Kitchen Nightmares, Archer, Doctor Who (David Tenant ftw), Castle, Chopped, Kitchen Confidential, The Best Thing I Ever Ate, Master Chef, Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip, Log Horizon, Fairy Tail, Marvel Netflix shows, Stranger Things

Smashing Pumpkins, Gravity Kills, techno, dance, 90s alternative, pretty much anything but hard rap or country.

Lasanga, pretty much any Italian, Japanese, Cheesecake, Ice Cream, White Chocolate -- don't eat beans. had enough rice in Indonesia for a lifetime but I don't hate it, just would rather have other options.

Settlers of Catan, Euchre, Dominion, Pathfinder card game, Legendary, Bang!, D&D 5E, Codenames

World of Warcraft, League of Legends, Overwatch, Skyrim, Mass Effect 3, Civ5, XCOM, Dragon Age, Final Fantasy
Six things I could never do without
The six things I could never do without are: smell, taste, touch, hearing, sight, and kinesthetics. The world is an amazing beautiful place full of wonderful people, places, and things; I would be sorely sad to not have all my senses to experience them with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how people interact with each other. how thankful I am for my friends and family.
On a typical Friday night I am
Most Fridays I'm with my best friend, his wife, and kids eating out.
If I don't go out with them, then I'm probably at a board game party or just home watching Hulu.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here is that I am aiming for a relationship. I'm tired of flying solo and I'm wanting a close friend and co-pilot.

I do love kitten videos on youtube; they make me smile.
You should message me if
if you think we'd be a good match.
if you already know me.
or if you just have a question that I can answer.
The two of us