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My self-summary
I'm genuine, kind, and open minded. I'm a good listener. I like emotional intelligence and self awareness. I travel a few months a year. I'm funny, I'm fun to make out with, and I like you.

I dislike labels, for me. Label yourself all you want. I'm "not an asshole". That means, among other things, I care about social justice. I'm anti-racist, lefty, and a feminist. I don't talk about it all the time. I don't want to talk about it all the time.

I don't want kids in the next 5 years. I have way too much living to do.

Ideally I'd meet someone awesome to spend the monogomish rest of my life with: traveling, having adventures, supporting each other and being our favorite average Wednesday people.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, traveling, reading, writing, making things, spending time with friends, making jokes, telling stories.

I try to spend as much time as possible on the stuff that really matters.
I’m really good at
Listening, talking, thinking, doing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love music. I have a lot of books. I sold my TV -- I watched it too much.

I sincerely love food. It's a source of great joy and it's very important to me.

I eat animals, but I won't eat sad animals.
Six things I could never do without
Curiosity, empathy, a sense of humor, love, kindness, friendship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Time management, ethical conundrums, if I'm spending my life the right way, sometimes trees. I like trees.
You should message me if
This is a wishlist, although a few of these are basically mandatory:

You're kind and thoughtful.
You laugh, a lot.
You're smart.
You're open minded.
You realize you were wrong about something at least once a week.
You want to meet.
You like science.
You've been to therapy.
You're rarely angry.
Food is important to you.
You think we'd be a good match.
The two of us