38San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a pretty big introvert (INTJ), so I'd rather spend time around a small group of people instead of huge crowds. In case you didn't know (and let's be honest, who would), INTJs make up only about 2% of the population, so I'm pretty rare!

I enjoy relaxing, and the only marathon you'll probably ever see me completing is Netflix. =) When I'm not doing that, I'll be more than happy relaxing on the beach or walking around the SD Zoo! Yes, I can spend an entire day in bed without it bothering me, but that doesn't mean I don't like going out and enjoying what's out there!

My only real life goal is to be happy, because whenever I take time to think about what's really important in life, it's never money or possessions that come up first in mind. I'm a simple guy with simple needs, as long as I have a roof over my head and food in my stomach, I can make the best out of whatever situation I'm in.

Oh, I also don't look my age at all! Most people tend to guess that I'm about 10 years younger, I guess that's a benefit of being bi-racial!
What I’m doing with my life
I have recently moved to San Diego after working at my previous job in San Jose for almost 16 years. Decided to give up a decent salary to explore what I love, but giving up that security has definitely been a big challenge! But life has different plans for me, so I'm back up in San Jose working, but I so desperately want to consider SD as my home! I come down as often as possible, especially since I'm still paying rent! =P

Right now I'm just working in San Jose, and dreaming of the next time I can go down to San Diego and visit the pandas after relaxing on the beaches! I'm very into photography, so you'll almost never see me without my camera. Some days I will wake up early to catch the sunrise, just because people too often forget to enjoy the little things in life.

I also enjoy playing video games, and if you're willing to be my player 2, that's just an extra bonus. Don't worry though, I don't spend all my time playing games, I just find that it's a nice break from reality.
I’m really good at
Singing Disney songs from memory (especially Aladdin), sleeping, relaxing, sarcasm, photography, and just having an overall good sense of humor.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, I'm 1/2 Asian & 1/2 Caucasian, so people tend to notice that I don't quite look like any particular race.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Harry Potter, Hunger Games, Clan of the Cave Bear, Ender's Game. I don't read as often as I should, so if you have any ideas for a good book feel free to let me know, my kindle has a lot of room!

Movies: Star Trek (TOS, TNG, & the reboot) Harry Potter, Hunger Games, Love Actually, Flubber (I was in the movie!) I like comedies, drama, Sci Fi, all just depends on my mood. When I go to movies I like to go to be entertained, so I don't mind going to see something stupid if it's entertaining. =)

Shows: I'm a huge Star Trek nerd and I love Sci Fi shows. Some of my current favorite shows are Fringe, Doctor Who, Futurama, GoT, Walking Dead, Battlestar Galactica, Last Week Tonight, Community, & Modern Family. I also enjoy Psych, Burn Notice, and many other shows on USA. I absolutely hate "reality" shows though!

Music: I listen mostly to adult contemporary because that's what we have playing at work, but my current favorite artist is Colbie Caillat. I love good music, and I enjoy just being able to close my eyes and absorb the sound around me.

Food: I'm not a big foodie, I eat to live, not live to eat. My two favorite foods though are clam chowder in a bread bowl & fettuccine alfredo. I'll try anything at least once, but am much more comfortable eating food that I've already had before. And my guilty fast food pleasure is Taco Bell! :)
Six things I could never do without
1) My camera
2) Internet
3) Pandas
4) Laptop
5) Cell Phone
6) Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why we're here, and what is the purpose of life. I don't often think about the future because I like to think that what happens, happens. I also love to look up in the night sky and just think about how small we all really are in comparison to the universe, which makes me wonder why people can't just get along.
On a typical Friday night I am
Finding some way to relax, whether it be sitting in watching too much Netflix, or headed down to the beach to enjoy a lovely sunset!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like pandas a lot. I'm not sure how it started, but I have over 150 stuffed pandas.
You should message me if
You enjoy hanging out and relaxing, and you know how to appreciate the little things in life.

If your idea of a great first date is spending the day at the zoo, beach, or a theme park, then get in touch! I would enjoy to get to know someone in an environment where we could be ourselves, not necessarily worrying about how terrifying a date could be! =)

Oh, and I also love all animals; if it's got fur and four legs I'll pretty much try and pet it! So, if you also love animals, I'm the man for you!
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