34Indianapolis, United States
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My self-summary
Sorry that everybody else has to read this, but it is an actual problem. NO COUPLES! No matter how special you think you are or that you are in someway different from other couples or you are so special that you alone can change my sexual choices and attractions, YOU. ARE. NOT. No couples!!!!

I am highly opinionated and rather smart, but I make up for it by such things as being intentionally self deprecating, also unintentionally so help by the fact that I can also come across as a bit ditzy and ok I'll admit I impressively excel at being a klutz : ) I am also very loyal, but wary. I am most certainly not afraid to call you out on well, just about anything, but I can take what I give. I do speak my mind. I can make the best out of most situations and I love to laugh, although my sense of humor can be rather dark. I was pursuing a J.D. with a concentration in Health Law, but it wasn't for me. Believe it or not I still have all those naive I can save the world ideas. You could call me a bleeding heart liberal, but a totally cynical one. Instead I realized that the human soul does definitively exist as they were stealing more and more of my own every day. Currently trying to figure out what exactly I want to go back to grad school for. So many options...
I'm not from Indiana, but seem to be stuck in a black hole that just will not let me go.... oops, I mean, who doesn't love it here?

Likes: I generally think that life is too short to have favorites, but I always love trying new things and going new places. I generally hold to the axiom that anything is worth trying once. I like to travel, but have not done so nearly as much as I would like to. I did get to spend the summer in the Netherlands in 2010, and adored it, as I did my study abroad at the University of Amsterdam in college, with some travel in Germany, France ( ok I lasted one day), and Belgium. I read to an almost pathological level, but nerdiness is cool right?

Dislikes: Writing about myself or at least in situations like this where other people can read it. To rectify that I took a creative writing course recently. Never got around to it in undergrad, but I'd been really fascinated by the idea for some time so i decided to finally go for it. Obviously it did not cure my problems with verbosity, but I really enjoyed it and would like to explore it further

I don't like people who take themselves or life too seriously. Life is far too important to be taken seriously. You only live once, so laugh at yourself already. Pettiness also particularly irritates me. If your life is so small you have to put others down to make yourself feel better, well then I will have a bit of fun but I doubt you will enjoy it very much, so I would advise you to just avoid.

Test for dating: Should have a passport and a library card (or as an update to that test,an e-reader). Not to be too picky, but at least a bachelors degree is important to me as well. Need I mention my opinion if you still live with your parents? Of course all people are different and what make a person interesting can vary greatly. Hell, if I could homeschool grad school, I absolutely would. I hate the organized educational system. I would much rather just read whatever catches my interest at the time. I need someone who can be pragmatic but open to and always looking for adventure as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to figure that out, again the whole trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. Like many Americans these days, I'm working at a job I'm far overqualified for to pay bills, trying to plan my future, finding ways to improve myself and my brain, trying to just enjoy my life, while figuring out the whole what I want to do when I grow up thing.
I’m really good at
Being a smart ass, lateral thinking, finding my way into trouble, throw in baking just for the hell of it and I don't mean Nestle Toll House, somehow ending up being everybody else's therapist/priest/life coach, um, I'll revisit this later, oh right procrastination.
The first things people usually notice about me
Telling you now would ruin the surprise if you ever got to meet me in person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Life is too short to have favorites
Six things I could never do without
Assuming food and water and air
Strong drink
Smart phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the Universe, and Everything, and too much time.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am a bit of a nerd. I do like going out to have a nice day or just to a pub to have some drinks with friends. If drunk enough, dancing or kareoke could occur. Many nights I'd prefer a glass of whiskey on a couch watching some TNG . Yes, I'm a nerd. I am not the average girl, nor do I want to be. I can't help it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I wonder what type of person would actually admit to anything that is actually very interesting or salacious when he or she answers this question.
You should message me if
I'm on here to meet new friends, new co-conspirators in evil, maybe something more than just friends, and I'd also like to meet a female companion to have fun with and perhaps more. Of course admit it or not, in a way we are always looking for "the one" or ones or whatever, I'm just dubious about meeting him or her on Okc. Never know though. Basically can you pique my interest, take as well as you give, and challenge me in some manner, and find interesting ways to have a hell of a good time?
The two of us