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My self-summary
Have tried this before and found out that there are dozens of ladies who want me - NOT! :)

But that's OK because I'm not looking for dozens of ladies.
I'm looking for ONE lady who is interested in 'happily ever after' with
ONE man.

A little bit about me:


Somewhere between 5'10 and 5'11 - depends on what time of day - I think I shrink as the day goes on;)
Around 190 pounds (working on getting this lower - like nearly everybody else)
Blue eyes/Grey hair/short goatee
Don't smoke, rarely drink
Not sure why this part is even necessary but, don't do drugs (other than ibuprofen and caffeine!)


Slightly OCD
Bit of a Sci-Fi/RPG/Computer Geek
Computer Programmer with Habitat for Humanity
Creative - chain maille jewelry/gem trees/rock pictures
A bit of a smart-ass (better than being a dumb-ass!)


Love the outdoors - hiking/kayaking/disc golf/tennis/gardening/beachcombing
Indoors, I like watching a good (or bad) movie cuddled up to someone special and candlelit bubble-baths - again, with someone special :)
Spiritual without being religious

Now, the tough part, a little bit about the type of lady I am looking for:


Let's face it, while we would all love to pretend that physical attraction should be a minor consideration for a successful relationship, this is generally not the case.
I'll admit up front - I'm not Ken. But, then again, I'm not looking for
That being said, I enjoy a pretty active lifestyle and I would hope my
partner would do so, too.
If you don't think that you would be happy/comfortable spending a day outside, we probably won't be all that compatible.


Hopefully not TOO crazy - although "eccentric" would be fine ;)
Sarcastic is good, and, if you can laugh at my terrible jokes, we may just work out! LOL

Emotional :
Past your ex(s)
Ready to commit to a future with someone (else).

You have probably noticed that I have divided the sections, above, into three criteria.
These represent to me the three equal aspects of a successful relationship.
I believe that Physical intimacy, Mental intimacy and Emotional intimacy must all be present, and in nearly equal proportions for a relationship to thrive.

And, just for definitional purposes, "Physical intimacy" doesn't mean sex.
Physical sharing encompasses so much more than just what takes place in the bedroom.

Perhaps these song lyrics can explain what/who I'm looking for better than I can:

You say there is no perfect place
I say I know this is true
We are just learning how to smile
And that's not easy to do

I can handle all the hell
That happens everyday
When you smile and touch my face
You make it all go away

Yes I know there ain't no finish line
I know this never ends
We are learning how to fall
And climb back up again

I know there is nothing perfect
I know there is nothing new
We are just learning
How to live together
Me and you

If you feel the same, or if anything that I have written resonates with you, please don't hesitate to contact me!

Bonus points if you know the name of the song! :)
What I’m doing with my life
Pretty much finding myself at a crossroads right now. Don't necessarily want to stay where I am (either physically, emotionally or relationship-wise). Open to change.
I’m really good at
I'm good with working with my hands (electrical, plumbing, carpentry, roofing, masonry tile work, gardening) but also good with my head (I'm a computer programmer). I guess that I'd say that I'm basically a problem solver.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told that my eyes are my best feature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Science fiction, fantasy, RPGs, military history, comedy.
I like many, many kinds of music (my current playlist has Buddy Holly, The Rolling Stones, Johnny Cash, The Byrds, Bob Dylan, Jewel, Warren Zevon, Pearl Jam and The Airborne Toxic Event). Not super fond of Italian food - other than that, pretty much anything goes. On TV I like Big Bang Theory, Sons of Guns, Gold Rush and the MLB and NFL Networks along with HGTV.
Six things I could never do without
My daughter
My sense of humor
Media - ie books/movies/music (Ha! I got three for one!)
New challenges
The Outdoors
Football and Baseball
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future - near and distant
On a typical Friday night I am
Making final preparations for whatever adventure I am planning for the weekend :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like to write fiction - sci-fi, children's stories so far.
You should message me if
If you are looking for an honest, forthright man who can actually speak in complete sentences, but who may not be particularly politically correct.
The two of us