I have been told i give great hugs-i think it's an energy thing. I am big into energy, and i am learning more about it and how to control and project it on a daily basis-it's all about the connection for me, most of the time. Im a huge hedonist when the situation warrants, and get pleasure from giving pleasure.
I dont give my cell # out to people I dont know well, and I'm not glued to OKC.
I've been researching homesteading some-nothing major, but I've been learning to can, and dehydrate, and have plans for a garden, plus tentative plans for chickens and indoor and outdoor hydroponics setups.
I'm working on balance right now, in all aspects of my life-work/family, family/me time, exercise/endless roo cups of icees...You know how it goes.
I am a great listener. I am empathic and empathetic. I am great with children, old folks, and pets, and parents usually love me. I find it easy to relate to people. Im also a naturally talented (though clinically untaught) maseusse and good in the kitchen. I've become awesome at both adapting recipes for differing dietary needs and using whatever I happen to find randomly in the fridge/pantry to make some awesome on-the-fly recipe. Im a gifted writer, as well. I love to bootblack, and I am still a total novice with lots to learn but I've been given a lot of compliments...Plus some other things I just wont mention here. *winks*
Apparently I'm.also really good at scaring otherwise wonderful men away with my depth and sincerity. And being neurotic and insecure-I'm a pro.
My smile, or lack thereof. I have a resting bitch face, and when that's not in use, I wear my heart on my sleeve unintentionally and it tends to draw people in either way. I have also been told I have a very musical laugh and a pleasant, sexy voice.
Lately I've been caught quite a few times using ears of corn as a microphone at work. Hey, when "Day-o" comes over the PA, you just HAVE to do the Beetlejuice dance...Or at least I have to. It might be a law somewhere.
My sense of humor. I am usually looking for the funny side in everything-life isnt easy and stress is everywhere. Humor is a great diffuser. I have a wicked, caustic sense of humor and tend to push the envelop sometimes...If Im around the right company, I will say things that probably shouldnt be said but are true and damned hilarious just the same. If it didnt come out of my mouth, you can bet Im still thinking it.
My tattoos. (Just the two...)
A Prayer for Owen Meany
the Anita Blake novels
Harry Potter series
At First Sight
Something's Gotta Give
Good Will Hunting
Meet Joe Black
Music (I once lost my Ipod at work and they couldnt tell whose it via the music choices. "There was Disney, there was Pink Floyd, there was John Mayer, there was Ozzie Osbourne, there was Rodgers and Hammerstein. After awhile I just gave up!")
Goo Goo Dolls
Death Cab for Cutie
Nine Inch Nails
Hootie and the Blowfish
Dave Matthews Band
We could be here all day....
dairy free ice cream
I also follow a gluten free, casein and most nightshade free diet. I promise you, I can cook....and there are still 'normal people' food that I can eat.
How to word my profile so that people just trying to get into my pants don't bother to message me and beg for sex, or try to convince me to beg for sex....
I also think that some of the categories that OkCupid makes us put ourselves in are inaccurate and restrictive-particularly 'bisexual' on my profile. Everyone and their brother has been asking so i'll clarify. I technically identify as heteroflexible and demisexual
I just read someone's profile-it made me laugh, he sounded like a pretty cool guy-and OKC wanted me to know that if this guy seemed cool, but I wasnt sure about his hygiene, that they could recommend someone "cleaner." I just...I dont know, man....Sure, its good to know, but how clean are we talking? Was guy A Pigpen from Peanuts? Was guy B Mr. Udall from As Good as it Gets? I now have the creeps...
I don't want to be with someone who thinks they have the answers. I want to be with someone who is wise enough and brave enough to ask the questions.
I dont want to be with someone who accepts me for what I am-I want to be with someone who accepts me for where I am and sees what I can become.
I'm always lookng for something to do, some new activity to try, or to meet new people to hang out with, Fridays or not. If this sounds appealing to you, drop me a line, please.
I have an elipses addiction.
My mind is constantly running....if you can get me to STOP thinking every now and again? You're a pretty special person.
The most *taboo* thing I'll mention here is that I am into BDSM as a lifestyle choice (not just a bedroom thing,) and I'm interested in meeting a person who is, too.
Yup,I play pokemon go. Judge if you must but all my roommates play, and it's a fun activity to share. Also, the amount of walking I do in a day anymore is insane...anything that helps me stay fit and isn't boring us a good thing.
You should NOT message me if me being vision impaired (nondriver) bothers you, if you're not family oriented, if chicks with tattoos bother you, if you're uptight about religion, or if you're in another country and want a long distance relationship. It's not going to happen. Do not message me if you want NSA sex.