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My self-summary
Re-doing this again because I over-think what I write. (and ill probably do it again -__-)

My name is Erik, and I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for. I know I want to share my life with someone eventually, but I'm just not sure when that moment will be. I suppose I'll just have to wait until the right person comes along, or until I bump into them.
I'm definitely not one to be shy at first, maybe nervous, but I'll have no problem asking a ton of questions personal or impersonal (depending how open/comfortable the person is). I like to talk to people, and hear their story :)...I just hope it's not one-sided.
Also.. I can be pretty outspoken, not rude, but I'm definitely a guy who has an opinion ...all within a respectable boundary of course .
I'd say I also have a good level of consideration around strangers and more with people who are closest to me... making others feel good makes me feel good.
I'm also a huge geek.
I could go into more details...but then you'd know my whole life story and you'd get bored and I'd ruin any chance of attracting anyone, so I'll stop here!

I Am The Captain Of My Soul

Out of the night that covers me
black as the pit from pole to pole
I thank whatever gods may be
for my unconquerable soul
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud
Under the bludgeonings of chance
my head is bloody, but unbowed
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
looms but the horror of the shade
and yet the menace of the years
finds, and shall find me, unafraid
It matters not how strait the gate
how charged with punishments the scroll
I am the master of my fate
I am the captain of my soul
by William Earnest Henley
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a server at Claim Jumper.
I'm back in school :). I'm an English major (please do all the eye rolling or long pauses now to save the awkward and also long explanation to defend my interest xD) My goal is to teach, my end game is to be a published writer (a well known published writer if possible)
I’m really good at
Daydreaming, and drooling on pillows while napping.


Being perceptive of people and understanding others.

I'm pretty good at playing pool when under the influence of alcohol.

Over-analyzing text messages.

Fighting games/RPGs

Sarcasm/dry humor/vulgar humor/referencing movies and
videogames...and anime..

Basically I'm nearly good at absolutely nothing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty passionate about...mostly everything, on the exception of math or law or religion (not that I can't get into the topics, it just takes a bit of a nudge)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fav. Books/Comics/Manga: This list would be infinite if I actually listed everything...
I guess my top (right now) are:
The Outsorcerer's Apprentice
House of Leaves (slowly but surely reading it, cause it freaks me out quite frankly)
Colorless (which I highly recommend!)
and I'm re-reading The Hunger Games for nostalgic purposes.

Fav. Movies:
Spirited Away.
Kill Bill.
Memoirs of a Geisha.
V for Vendetta.
Prayers for Bobby.
Little Miss Sunshine.
Beauty and the Beast.
Breakfast Club.
Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World.
P.S. I Love You.
Girl Interrupted.
Howls Moving Castle.
Princess Mononoke.
Erin Brockovich.
The Miracle Worker.
Marvel's The Avengers.
Mrs. Doubtfire.
The Wizard
Kick Ass 1&2
Life Is Beautiful
The Skeleton Twins
Snow Piercer
The Help
Battle Royale
(I'm sure i'm missing a few)

Fav. Shows:
Avatar: The Last Airbender
Avatar: The Legend of Korra
Dead Like Me
X-Men Evolution
Family Guy.
I Love Lucy.
American Horror Story.
Heroes Reborn
How to Get Away With Murder
The Unites Sates Of Tara
Dr. Who
Once Upon a Time
Project Runway
Agents of shield

Fav. Music:
It's pretty eclectic , the only music I don't listen to is hick country, and hardcore rap that makes me feel like the music is going to summon a drive by.

Some examples: The XX, The Naked and Famous, The Killers,
Jessie J, Kelly Clarkson, Paloma Faith, Paramore (1st - 3rd albums), The Hush Sound, Silversun Pickups, AC/DC, Robyn, Avenged Sevenfold, A Fine Frenzy, Fiona Apple, Sara Bareilles, Jimmy Eat World, Shiny Toy Guns, Metric, ....

Fav Food: I love pesto that shit will make me satisfied for days. Also any kind of mexican food that isn't spicy (i know, whats the point? There is a point and it's the fact I'm a fucking pussy with spices.) Sushi/sashimi any day. And don't mention Panini's around me unless I'm either eating one or on the way to said sammich.
Maybe that was a bit excessive..
Six things I could never do without
My Phone
My Glasses
My technological soul mate.
My friends.
My mood swings.
Yes, I broke the six things rule, you can add rebel to that summary if you'd like.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot thinking about my future and how in the hell I'm going to achieve it with how spastic my mind is. I also spend plenty on how my parents are doing and always say I should call them more when I don't (I know, I'm terrible..but I love them more than anything). I also spend a lot of time thinking if I'll die alone or die alone with a dog, I can't decide.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out with friends.
Dancing in front of the mirror b/c I usually can't in public while sober.
Fan-girling over nerdy things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish I was a waterbender, or at least had invisible woman's powers
You should message me if
1. If I haven't scared you off.
2. If you're a nice, talkative, down to earth person :).
3. If you somehow find me mean appealing.
4. if you weirdly want to know more cause Idk why you would...i wouldnt.
5. Or if you have a strong interest in superheroes/videogames/or books
The two of us