I recently moved to New Orleans to go to graduate school in writing (which means I write a lot). I nanny to pay the bills, and start (and finish?) handfuls of other projects. Most recently, I'm working out plans to build a mini-yurt. I like to sew and bake bread and smash the patriarchy. I'm in a rad nonmono relationship with my partner (who also likes to smash patriarchy), camgnostic. We're kinda perverts. I like that about us.
Recently, I've been struggling with generally liking life, and, if you wanna call it this, the big ol' depression deal. So, that's kind of a big bump.
Some things to know: I'm a cis lady (mostly? Fuck, I don't know), but present as pretty queer sometimes, and maybe identify that way. I'm also interested in folks all across the gender spectrum. And I'm in a non-monogamous relationship with my dude, who I live with.
If it starts with "I'm sorry to be forward/creepy/weird, but," then I probably won't like it (or you). Same goes for "hey beautiful" or the like, as well as copy-pasted form messages. Don't just say "hi." Don't be, ya know, an asshole. I'm not particularly interested in casual sex (I like to know people before I fuck them), and just because I'm a pervert doesn't mean I'm not also a human. Be warned: I tend to answer the dickbag messages first thing in the morning, before I've had any coffee at all.