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My self-summary
(this will be rather stream of consciousness; i apologise in advance for any vertigo it may cause)

in many ways i am an old school Homosexual. i like fashion, decorating, and opera, i can cook and knit and sew, i can be cavalier about pronouns, i dress in drag on halloween and i'm GOOD at it, i can quote "all about eve," "the women." and "mildred pierce."

i have a certainly nostalgia for the fay dandy of the 60's.

i'm out and proud and don't care who knows it. i have my own developing sense of style and individuality that i nurture and cherish.

on the flip side, i can knock down and rebuild a wall, change a light fixture and build a barbeque grill. ain't afraid to get grimy and sweaty and sometimes leave the house wearing that!!!???

I'm both interesting and interested.
I’m really good at
making people feel at ease; creating a well rounded and comfortable atmosphere; taking control if the situation needs it (and happy to) but very easy going and receptive.
The first things people usually notice about me
it's hard to be objective about these things. i hope it's my irreverent sense of style, or the economic and graceful way i move through the world. but it's probably this week's permutation of facial hair. and my generally ill fitting trousers. i'm sartorially hopeless below the waist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
my favorite food is absolutely pizza. i have an amazing, astonishing capacity for pizza. after pizza comes almost anything. i very much enjoy vietnamese food. i love anything that's savory, gooey, warm, and comforting. and i can eat the same thing everyday if i like it.

my go to dvds are: (the new) pride and prejudice; fifth element; sleepy hollow; mildred pierce. the disclaimer here is these are some of the movies i own and i have seen them so often that i really don't have to watch them anymore, they are like visiting with old friends. other favorites are (cocteau's) beauty and the beast, sudden fear, all about eve,

librarily, i'm currently curious about fan sequels to pride and prejudice. i read a lot of fantasy/sci fi. recently i like china mieville, neil gaiman, george martin.
Six things I could never do without
6 things I would like to never have to do without:
road trips
breakfast out
smart cocktails
bacon (see #3, I guess)
sputter sput sput dang! outta gas
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what my next career should be and how to get there.
On a typical Friday night I am
surfing netfix. (this must change.) or enjoying happy hour cocktails with friends. (this can stay the same.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I prefer schnuggling to schtupping
You should message me if
no if
The two of us