kubisiak
23 Portland, United States
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My self-summary
I look like an athlete most of the time. I ran track in college and did tons of sports in high school so I have mostly athletic apparel in my wardrobe. And it's by far more comfortable than most other things so why would I wear something I'm not comfy in? Well actually sometimes I wear more stylish stuff to try and look good, which also makes me feel good. But then I also wear mismatching patterns of regular stuff because I like the items individual and they're comfortable but I look like a 12 year old dressed me.

I'm an advocate for a number of social justice issues. I support feminism and do what I can to enlighten my people I have influence over (family, friends, coworkers, etc) especially when they say things that are problematic. I try to do the same with racism and LGBTQ issues as well. That being said I try only to speak at a very shallow level on it as I recognize that I have the highest tier privilege and have not experienced any of the repercussions of belong to these groups.

I'm looking to make new friends with deeper connections. I've seen a therapist the last several months and learned a lot about myself and would really like to develope something meaningful connections as I've lacked intimacy in a lot of my relationships of past, both romantic and platonic. I'm working on some of those still on going friendships but starting fresh sounds...refreshing.

I'm also looking to date a bit. Mostly short term scenarios making a connection and something where we continue to be friends after we end physical or romantic aspects.

Here are just a couple scenerios that I would like to come across. Really just 2 that I've had a tough time finding more organically so hopefully it gets the attention of those who want the same. They are by no means the only thing I am in search of.

Someone who has a mutual asexual attraction and just wants to spend time together and have a romantic relationship.

Someone to experiment with sexually. This isn't something I just want to jump into immediately, like I mentioned before I need to feel comnected and comfortable. I have interest in trying out some different things and seeing how much I enjoy then in practice, not just the idea.
What I’m doing with my life
Working full time and going to school part time.
I’m really good at
Clear, kind communication. Being open to criticism and learning new things. Debating from an objectionably wrong point of view. Running fast. Cuddling and brig touchy-feely. Shutting down under emotional distress!
The first things people usually notice about me
My curly hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Breaking bad. Workaholics. It's always sunny in Philadelphia. Rick and Morty. bobs burgers, GoT, house,

SLC Punk. Back to the future. Taken. Sherlock Holmes. A knights tale. Hitch. The butterfly effect.

Music: The Killers, Enter Shikari, Crossfaith, Architects, Awolnation, Hugh Laurie, The Naked and Famous, Imagine Dragons, Passion Pit, Edward Sharp and the Magnetic 0s, Matt and Kim, AJJ, Ramshackle glory, kimya Dawson, the mountain goats, the front bottoms, mewithoutYou.
The six things I could never do without
Curiosity
Scents
Warmth
Memes
Science
Bad to worse jokes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to be positive and believe in myself. And how I can reinforce the same in others.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home playing games or watching movies or shows. Sometimes I go or with people as well, maybe some karaoke or just drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That's I see a therapist twice a week.
You should message me if
If you're interested in me in anyway!

You are interested in enlightening me on something important to you.

You want to drink and watch shows, or go out, or pretty much anything with drinking.
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