kubisiak
24 Portland, United States
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My self-summary
I'm looking to make new friends with deeper connections. I've seen a therapist the last several months and learned a lot about myself and would really like to develope something meaningful connections as I've lacked intimacy in a lot of my relationships of past, both romantic and platonic. I'm working on some of those still on going friendships but starting fresh ones is a goal.

I'm trying not seeking individuals out for specific relationships. I think a lot of negative comes from seeking individuals for a very specific role. Letting things happen more organically and communicating goals and expectations cooperatively is what I want to push more toward. I know I am still prone to creating what my ideal scenario with friends or partners without saying anything to them, I'm a work in progress....and probably not as far along as I think.

So with that communication is one of my top priorities and I am very open to discussing mostly anything.

I'm open to both monogamy and non-monogamy and have had good experiences with both. I don't actually have hard preference it is just different feelings and dynamics I have with the individuals I encounter. Fluidity.

I'm an advocate for a number of social justice movements. This is important to me. If your curious to talk about such things please bring it up!
What I’m doing with my life
Working full time and going to school part time.
I’m really good at
Clear, kind communication. Being open to criticism and learning new things. Debating from an objectionably wrong point of view. Running fast. Cuddling and being touchy-feely. Shutting down under emotional distress!
The first things people usually notice about me
My curly hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Breaking bad. Workaholics. It's always sunny in Philadelphia. Rick and Morty. bobs burgers, GoT, house,

SLC Punk. Back to the future. Taken. Sherlock Holmes. A knights tale. Hitch. The butterfly effect.

Music: The Killers, Enter Shikari, Crossfaith, Architects, Awolnation, Hugh Laurie, The Naked and Famous, Imagine Dragons, Passion Pit, Edward Sharp and the Magnetic 0s, Matt and Kim, AJJ, Ramshackle glory, kimya Dawson, the mountain goats, the front bottoms, mewithoutYou.
The six things I could never do without
Curiosity
Scents
Warmth
Memes
Science
Bad to worse jokes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to be positive and believe in myself. And how I can reinforce the same in others.
On a typical Friday night I am
It fluctuates. Several weeks I may be playing video of board games with one group of friends then maybe it switches to going out with another group and drinking. And sometimes it's playing dodgeball. Other times it's binge watching shows or movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I see a therapist every other week!
You should message me if
If you're interested in me in anyway! You should definitely not hesitate!

You are interested in enlightening me on something important to you.

You wanna tie me up and whip me or something like that idk.

You want to drink and watch shows at home or go out and drink., or pretty much anything with drinking.
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