I'm shy and can seem prickly at first but I warm up quickly once I get engaged in a conversation. I'm strongly in favor of cuddling. I'm loyal to my close friends and would like more friends to share adventures with. I enjoy cooking for people.
Folks I get along with well tend to identify with several of these words: queer, feminist, nerd, burner, geek, polyamorous, relationship anarchist, maker, gamer, kinky, thoughtful, curious, or cuddle slut.
I'm polyamorous and I'm not interested in casual partners or hookups. I'm looking for someone who's open to being an important part of my life if we hit it off. My ideal poly world is one where I can have all my partners (and their partners) over for dinner and a movie on a somewhat regular basis. I have one long term partner zenspider and a ever fluctuating collection of other relationships.
I'm attracted to curvy women with nice smiles. I seem to have a soft spot for women who like to wear torn jeans, hiking boots, and sweaters but can also rock a dress, makeup, and heels. When it comes to men I usually fall for the mind first but I generally am into strong silent types with long hair.
For fun I ski, knit, cook, read, and explore restaurants, zoos, and museums. I recently found a form of exercise I really enjoy and that has been taking up a couple evenings a week.
I've met little music I actually dislike but equally little that I'm in a raging passion about. I enjoy live performances and playing music more than recordings.
I like food. Food is tasty. I'm picky about desserts and carrots are a right abomination but I like pretty much everything else.
a library or the internet
someone or something to care for
nature to retreat into
Bonus item for fall and winter: a knit beanie. I'm rarely without a hat once the rain starts.