I am the shyest exhibitionist you will ever meet. A plus sized woman looking for friends to go out and *DO* things with. Preference given to someone local to me.
I am married, not looking to leave but to add to my current relationship. If you are married or otherwise partnered be aware I do NOT tolerate cheaters. I WILL want to talk to the other person(s) at some point.
I am rather involved in my local alternative lifestyle groups and I am still trying to find where exactly I fit. I can be classified as Bi, Poly amorous, and I play on the Top side of BDSM Lifestyle. I can be persuaded to other fun things with the proper negotiation first. If you are looking for someone who is in the Poly or SM lifestyle we might want to chat. If you have a FetLife profile, even better :)
I find that I tend to go with the flow with those I am around until a real decision needs to be made, then I am ready, willing and able, to make it. I look for the things I have in common with everyone. I enjoy the differences I find in people.
Contact me if you are looking for someone to chat with, watch movies, go for a walk/amble somewhere, or you are looking for an FLR.
I am a sucker for a feel good movie. (YAY Pixar) Tied for first place is a movie that makes me laugh or think. I love a good action flick. Not much into the slapstick stupid type of movies but a good intelligent humor is much more my style.
Music, hmmm. Wow, what do I say. I love music. I am really, really, oh and did I mention REALLY bad at band names and the names of songs so I almost never buy music since I don't want to spend money on something I won't like. I listen to almost everything. Individual tunes stick out in every genre. I love anything with a positive message, happy and upbeat sound, lots of percussion.
Food. Yes please but hold the Brussels sprouts. Those things should have been left in Brussels unsprouted. Blech. Mexican, Tex-Mex (yes, Virginia there is a difference), Thai, Chinese, Japanese, American, Greek. I did not get my current waistline by hating food.
Not necessarily in that order
What would it take to buy a town where I can write the rules?
As you probably noticed in the title line I am a bisexual woman in a poly/leather household.