lainproliant
28 Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
I like spending time with my friends and loved ones to play a game, take a walk in the woods, or enjoy a nite in together. I'm an introvert, so I also enjoy time alone in my own personal world to reflect on myself and the outside. This usually involves a laptop, some coffee, and a nice pair of headphones.

I'm in an open polyamorous relationship with TerraBullworth and Hoppet_. Since arriving in Seattle about three years ago, I have built a strong group of friends and am looking to reach out further.

I'm genderfluid, meaning that I am not strictly male or female but rather I am a dynamic mixture of attributes which could be considered male and/or female. This is most apparent in my mannerisms and dress. I tend to prefer female pronouns be used to address me by those with which I am closely acquainted.

I am motivated by my curiosity, my love for my friends and family, and my thirst for new and exciting people, places, and things.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a software developer. It's a big part of who I am and has helped to shape my life and identity. Software isn't just work for me, it's my passion.

Now that I've started my career, I'm looking down the road to see what comes next. I'm also trying to enjoy my youth while it stays with me.
I’m really good at
Creative problem solving and most games once I learn to play them. I love bouncing ideas around with other people. I am generally good at troubleshooting and building mental models of systems, designs, and ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes, timid demeanor, feminine qualities. I tend to gaze into the void when I'm deep in thought. I have an eclectic style and can often be caught in long stockings and/or a good pair of knee-high stompers. It is rare that I am without my laptop.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I often read technical literature and non-fiction for leisure. I also enjoy realistic fiction, science fiction, cyberpunk, and manga. I listen to a variety of music: mostly metal and electronic/industrial. I enjoy pretty much all music so long as it offers melody and rhythm.

https://open.spotify.com/user/lainproliant

I am a fan of anime, classic movies (action, horror, drama, and comedy), and sometimes I'll marathon a good series on Netflix.

I am a fan of most foods. I am an omnivore. Generally prefer balanced meals (veggies = good) over fast food or pizza.
The six things I could never do without
A laptop, coffee, internet access, food, water, and hugs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Projects I'm working on and how my friends are feeling. I often daydream about travelling to new places and I'm always looking forward to my next big adventure.

I have recently become more introspective and inward focused as I search for a better definition of who I am, and who I want to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with TerraBullworth exploring Seattle, at the gym playing raquetball, or at home relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am deeply interested in exploring my own fears.
You should message me if
You are a kind and intellectually curious person who would enjoy cuddles and/or conversation, or if you have any questions or interesting things to share.
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