61St. Louis, United States
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My self-summary
Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you are riding through the ruts, don't complicate your mind. Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don't bury your thoughts, put your vision to reality. Wake Up and Live!

“One …honest, caring, generous, intelligent man seeking an LTR” Feel as comfortable in a tux as in jeans. My friends would say that I'm passionate in all my endeavors; I would say that I am a comfortable companion, easy going, non-judgmental and honest.

My lists of likes are eclectic and best be accompanied with a cup of coffee. I don't smoke, drugs and drink socially; although I have no problem with someone who socially drinks... Not to extreme. I don't mean to come across as a saint...truth be told I may even have a touch of the devil... I bring to the table a plethora of knowledge and training, such as. . . I have the toilet seat ritual down pat. I can adapt quickly to how you prefer your coffee and eggs! Mastered the art of picking up after myself. . .no undies hanging on a doorknob, dishes removed and cleaned after a meal, no stinky sweat socks laying about the house.

Don’t consider myself religious but rather spiritual in nature and determined in my resolve. If you're looking for a U.N. man; cooks like a French Chef, Physique of a Greek God and able to make love like an Italian Gigolo. . .you may be disappointed. But Hey---2 out of 3 ain't bad! However, if you pictured me as a nearsighted, color-blind circus dwarf; bald with leprosy you would be most pleasantly surprised; and relieved. I'm different....Don't get me wrong I love a good roll in the hay, but I'm not some sleezeball looking for another notch on his bedpost. I am seeking out one special lady and attempt to satisfy her needs.

Throughout the ages poets have been penning their thoughts of broken hearts. However, my heart is far from broken, my affliction is loneliness. A healthy vibrant pulse eagerly awaits YOU! You, my muse my inspiration; who would be the center of my universe, the subject of my thoughts, dreams and fantasies. . .both pure and impure ;) You, my best friend, confidante and lover. I'm looking for a woman and a lady who wants to share a lifetime of serendipitous adventure, mirthful glee, heart-melting smiles and fording the unknown together. Let me make one thing clear. . .I do not need a woman, but I want a lady. Simply put, I have been put here for ONE woman. The Whispering of your Words....Are the most beautiful and sexy things a man can enjoy. It shows intelligence, the sense of humor you possess, the generosity of your nature, the endearing qualities that make you, YOU!

The timbre, tone and even vibrato of your voice is exotic; however nothing is more intoxicating than the written word. I am looking for an intelligent, self-reliant, charming, funny, witty, personable woman who feels as comfortable in jeans as an evening gown. If you possess these qualities and would like to spend forever with one loving man, of same character we can herald in a new future together. Wouldn't it be nice not to have to toss that last quart from your gallon of milk; having someone you cherish and respect critique your wardrobe ...or a hint of a smile and a sparkle in the eyes as she mentions the spinach on your teeth while sharing a candlelit dinner. These are the simple overtures of life that I am missing. Looking for someone who compliments my persona, not mirror it.

Interested in a LTR. The things I miss most: The sweet smell of your hair as I nibble on your neck. The familiar giggle in your voice as I whisper those words you long to hear, in your ear. The pitter patter of your bare feet on the hardwood as you walk across the room into my arms. The tender sigh as you sip on your morning cup of java. The infectious smile you share with children as we walk through the park, hand in hand. The same smile you give me as I open the door for you. Although I love to cook exotic meals, it isn't worth the hassle to do so for only oneself. Movies are always more enjoyable when there is someone you can laugh and cry with. Planning to travel....always nice to have another perspective. If we were all the same, life would be boring. The simple pleasure of discussions over breakfast. The laughing, caressing, kissing that is a prelude to the comfortable retirement of a hectic day. To me these are the things that make life worth living...

As for what I am looking for in a woman...I'll know it when I see it. Only requirement I have is the ability to love and cherish, as I would to you. I know that the relationship I seek doesn't occur spontaneously, that's hormones! Maybe there is love at first sight, what a pleasant thought. But realistically, I am looking for a friend first...hopefully to lead to a joint future. Although there are many qualities I prefer in a woman, I choose to discover them slowly. If you would like to apply for the position near my heart ….. I’M ONLY A CLICK AWAY.
What I’m doing with my life
I wear several hats. Also in the middle of a chrysalis, looking to define my immediate future....
I’m really good at
Metaphorically speaking, making a silk purse out of a sows ear...
The first things people usually notice about me
The passion that drives me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have eclectic tastes in almost everything; best to find out for oneself. Am always open to experiencing new things.
Six things I could never do without
1) family
2) love
3) life goals
4) challenges
5) learning
6) Serendipity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have been blessed with ADD ...I think about everything except what the conversation is about. Lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Hmmmm.... Better not say.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Wouldn't be private if I posted it here. Tell you what...lets meet for coffee & I'll whisper it in your ear.
You should message me if
I respect all responses. However my heart only has room for one woman. Qualities which are of greatest importance are; intelligence, humor, openness, honesty, self respect. I'm an alpha but I want a woman who will challenge me when I'm wrong, admit when she is and smart enough to know the difference.
The two of us