laozen
30 Brampton, Canada
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My self-summary
A list: as it seems to be what works

-I am an INFP
-I am an erotica/cyberpunk/urban fantasy author (I have a short story published on amazon)
-I am a musician (I've been making music for 21 years and have had a song played on CIUT)
-I am a filmographer/videographer (I've filmed a couple concerts and am interested in creating short films and music videos)
-I love videogames (I have a PC and Xbox One): I am into RPGs, Fighting, Shooters, and Strategy games
-I am adopted (I have 21 siblings)
-I have disabilities. (I am legally blind and have Cerebral Palsy), yet they don't make me inspirational nor wanting of pity. Please, if you have any misgivings, be it my disabilities or anything else about me, please tell me, as I prefer honest truth that hurts more then sparing my feelings out of a need to be polite.
-I still live a home with my parents.
-I have a job that can be, and is very difficult (not many people would have the patience to do it), yet I am honoured to have it.
-I am very interested in BDSM and kink/fetishes
-I have a laugh that is a mixture of Ed the hyena from The Lion King and Ernie from Sesame Street
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
I think that one thing that people will come to realize about me is that I am a listener. I like listening to people's stories, which generally allows people to vent or just release some built up thoughts in their head if they just need someone to listen. I do have my own opinion but sometimes I don't provide much feedback, as they will eventually might come to a solution themselves.
The first things people usually notice about me
I come off as an "absent-minded professor".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Dean Koontz, J.R. Rain, Sophie Stern, Sorcha Black, P Joseph Cherubino, Elliott Kay, Terry Maggert, Tracey DeSanto, PK Rashaan, and many others...

Favourite films: Zootopia, Deadpool, Avengers, Winter Soldier, Iron Man, What Dreams May Come, The Proposal, Where the Wild Things Are, Repo Men, The book of Eli

TV: Person of Interest, Rosewood, Bones.

Anime: Yes.

Food: home made pizza and Kraft Dinner
The six things I could never do without
1: Music
2: Writing
3: Reading
4: My family
5: old school cartoons
6: Video games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-What to write
-The definition of "beauty"
-Why I am the person who I am
On a typical Friday night I am
Deep into the creative "zone" writing either my novel or music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmm..
You should message me if
you are adventurous:
You'd be one to say "Hey dude! I let you tie me up in bed last night, but now it's time to get off your lazy ass and go on a hike!"

you are intelligent and love to learn: You'd be able explain the universe, physics, and the meaning of life (42!) all at the same time, while being just as fascinated to learn how a LFO can modulate the frequency of a high-pass filter.

you can be grounded: You'd support my goals and dreams, no matter how "unrealistic" they might seem... Even if that support is a healthy dose of reality (not pessimism).

you are fun and funny: You definitely use sarcasm to point out how much of an idiot I'm being, but only before you actually participate in my thoughtful discussion about the possibility of roosters laying eggs.

the general public would conclude that I'd be way out of your league... Yet, you would be perfectly clear in explainingthat society (and even I) don't get a say in who you want to have a relationship with, so I should just "shut up and be happy, dude!"

you have any of these qualities, don't hesitate to message me!
... Unless the prospect of being with someone who falls upstairs appalls you... Then feel free to not send me anything!
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