I like having both a silly conversation but also someone that is very intellectual to be able to be witty and sarcastic. I like weird dark humor at times and I can say things that makes me have that feeling "I can't believe I said that out loud", but that what makes conversations fun. Being random and make spontaneous decisions always makes things in life more interesting and I have less regrets in doing so.
I also tend to be wordy so I may need to have a filter to make me stop talking at times. When in public, I don't mind making a fool out of myself to make a memorable event with anyone. I like being the black sheep of several events so I can be remembered as the guy that wants to enjoy the party and live it, not just go with the flow.
I have much to say about views in life, relationships, what to do for fun, goals, etc... However I like to keep it simple so I don't over indulge myself with additional stress that can be easily avoided.
Please keep in mind that I'm in an open relationship (with a girl that I love and would never replace) and do practice polyamory. However, I'm not looking just for a one-night stand/booty call. I'm actually looking to find people to make connections with so it can be either platonic and/or intimate relationship. So if you have an open mind and not afraid to share any information, then I believe that we can be a good match and/or friends.
When I'm not working I like to socialize with as many people I meet to make new friends since I just recently moved in the Chicago Region. I like finding hidden gems such as "hole in the wall" or "dives" spots, bar hop, play sports, go on random walks, look for an adventure, and on occasion have a lazy day to just lay down on my bed and watch random movies. I also like to travel by car, have spontaneous trips, be at peace with myself, and also discover new casual locations to hang out at.
When it comes to books and/or literature, I always love to read books written by Brad Meltzer for he writes some great conspiracy novels. I am a fan of the Harry Potter series but reading material that is more "real world" interests me more.
I'm multi-musical so most genres of music interests my perks. Since I'm a guard coach, music is in my blood. I have an ear to pick up good music and I'm very open to new music ideas. I also used to play in a jazz band where my instrument of choice was the trombone (however I also play many other instruments).
As for food, I may be picky many time. When I do open up my tastes for new foods, I stay away from pork. Aside from that, I'm perfectly fine in that category.
Companions (friends and/or more)
Sense of adventure
Scientific approach to life
Accepting humility (otherwise you may never learn anything)
Not being stubborn
I prefer finding good quality friends first before anything. If I meet a great girl and things grow from there, I let it come as it does. I never rush anything because I believe that everything that is presented to you is an opportunity to embrace new chances in life. Hopefully I can find my ideal date through here as well.