62Santa Ana, United States
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My self-summary

A little about me:

I am a Southern Gentleman. Grew up in Kentucky, but have lived in CA for almost 30 years. I am a good conversationalist but don't have to fill every moment with chatter. I have a quick wit and good sense of humor, so you better be ready to laugh. Even better if you can catch me off guard with a joke and make me (almost) spit my drink!

I'm very active. I play tennis weekly with the same group I have played with for years. I have also completely fallen in love with two man beach volleyball! I play once or twice a week at Corona Del Mar and have for the past 7 years.

I'm a good cook and enjoy either cooking for a group or sharing the kitchen. Love to share a good bottle of wine most any time. Always looking for new ones to try. I have been cruising Central Coast wineries for years. I love that area and intend to have a second home there by 2017.

I like most all types of music and listen to classic rock, classic R&B, some from the '80s to current. I even like Hip Hop, if it has a good beat. Love to dance and know how to lead. Love live music in local venues.

Own my own home and love spending time there. I grew up around cars and construction so, I can fix most anything. (I look pretty good in a tool belt!)

Love pets, have a cat named Ally who guards the house.

A little about you:

I am looking for a partner to spend my life with. Not sure about marriage, but not a player. If you are a smart, funny, affectionate lady with a good heart who doesn't sweat the small stuff, you are the one for me. Being a good communicator is a must.

Hope to see you soon.
What I’m doing with my life
Work: I am self employed. I run advisory groups for CEOs of larger companies. I have heard it describe both as group therapy and adult day care! It is very rewarding to help people have better, more productive business and personal lives. Along the way, I learned that too much work is not good for the soul or a relationship. So, I work to live, not live to work.

Play: I like to participate in sports and events. Not much of a spectator at anything except tennis and volleyball. I just watched a bunch of beach volleyball during the Olympics, so I am good with the watching for a while. Doing some soul searching, looking for the right partner. Way past due for a vacation, so I just booked a tall ship adventure for November. Much more fun traveling with someone I care about. So, here I am looking...

Family: I don't live near family. Have a brother and sister but only get to see them a couple times each year. I love the idea of being adopted by your family.
I’m really good at
In work, negotiating, helping people solve work and life problems. In life, listening, picking out great music for the occassion. Entertaining. I love having friends over for a pool party or a gourmet dinner. Wine tasting, I am somewhat knowledgeable but not a snob.

I am really, really good at being a loyal, reliable loving partner. I find that it is much more fun if I have a partner in crime going on this journey than doing it alone.
The first things people usually notice about me
Warmth, smile, eyes, sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I used to read lots of fiction but now am reading about leadership to sharpen my skills. Movies: comedies, dramas, Amazon Originals, watch mostly at home. I just added a theater room with a large projector screen. Bring the popcorn!! Small restaurants, most any type of food. Love sushi. Love live music. My favorite venues are in Laguna Beach.
Six things I could never do without
Family, friends, fireplace, sex, music and the love of a good woman (still looking for this one).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, past, future, where our country is going, my next, and hopefully last, great love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either home doing sushi and a movie or out listening to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a cat.
You should message me if
you like what you see and read or if you have a good joke! By the way, I don't have an upgraded account, so I can't see if you 'like' me. If you do, drop me a note and just say Hi.
The two of us