39 Coon Rapids, United States
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My self-summary
Happy birthday to me! Gonna sit here alone and watch cheers. Yay internet.

I love meeting new people as I am a super social person, so looking for whatever, drinking pals, friends .... someone who has a free thinking attitude towards the world and can have a fun and intelligent conversation.

I am hilarious, charming, and insightful

One thing you should know, I am not single by choice, I am a widower, and a single father. And I've learned compassion and love is harder to find in this world than one may know or think they're capable of.

Appearently I have to mention this. I am a financially secure professional male, not a stiff. But no mooch either. I'm set. You should be too.
Nothing too silly, but would like to do some vacationing.
What I’m doing with my life
Being the best I can be at being an amazing father. Blogging. Fixing things. Evolving to be a better person. Tech tinkering. Thinking about you and what you're thinking about.
I’m really good at
Creative Ideas ... inspiring others ... and making you feel good. I am very honest. I dont like to lie cause the truth is so much fun anyway. I say be yourself and be proud of it. I dont judge or condemn but I know who I am and what I want. I am very good at kissing, communication, deep thinking, being silly and being able to lighten up any room. And if I cant, I wouldn't want to be there anyway.
The first things people usually notice about me
How fun/funny I can be. My eyes. My lack of fear from judgement of others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Adult Swim, Shawshank Redemption, Bladerunner, Kill Bill, Immortal beloved, Snatch, Death Proof, Anything by the Coen Brothers,Natural Born Killers, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Pulp Fiction, Requiem for a Dream, Mulholland Dr., Donnie Darko, SLC Punk, Velvet Goldmine, Silence of the Lambs Bad sexy B movies, HBO Rome and Dead Wood,Harvey Birdman, Tim and Eric, books- Anything by Irvan Welch, Lewis Black, Good Omens, Hunter S. Thompson, Naked Lunch, Love is a Dog from Hell .... Like sushi, Pizza Luce, I Hate fast food or bad greesy junk food, love to cook steak, burgers, noodles ... Music I could go on forever. Muse, The cramps, The minute men, Tom Waits, Bob Dylan, Beck, Jimi Hendrix, Bjork, Iron Maiden, Black sabbath, Van Halen, Early Stones, The BEATLES!, Ween, Queens of the StoneAge, Gypsy Jazz, Devo, Cake, Goldfrapp, CCR, Eels, Beethoven, Rossini, Blur, Muddy Waters, The Orb, Retro Techno, ... etc. etc.
The six things I could never do without
Friends and family
True Love/Intimacy/amazing sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If America is totally losing it's soul for good
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix or reading
You should message me if
you are serious about meeting people and like what you see so far. :)

Ps. I can't stand the smell of patchouli. How do people not know this?? It smells like garbage and old man farts.

Also, I wouldn't put a lot of sock into matching %. Me and my dearly departed would have maybe been a 50-69% match on here. And we feel madly in love after three dates. So don't forget chemistry beats all other trivial pursuits.