62Deerfield Beach, United States
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My self-summary
I really don't like to talk about myself. I became a widow on October 27, 2010, a victim of losing my 58 yr old husband of 28 years to lung/brain cancer, so I'm very new to this. I'm looking for someone to hang with, go to dinner, walks on the beach, movies, just about anything. I love listening more than talking (unusual for a woman, huh?). I am honest, loyal, easy going, but don't like to be taken advantage of. I'll try anything once. If I like it, I'm sold. If I don't, then on to Plan B. I am a hard working, self sufficient, dedicated person. I keep getting these awards for perfect attendance at work and 8 hours extra vacation every quarter for not calling out sick and am beginning to wonder if that is such a good thing anymore! I tolerate just about anything (after all I got through the teenage years to bring my children into adulthood with lives of their own), but I can't tolerate dishonesty. That is probably the one most important traits to me. Deceive me and there is no going back.
What I’m doing with my life
Recently moved to So. Florida because I love being near the beach. I don't go often, but at least I know it's there.
I’m really good at
I don't know what I'm really good at. I'm a great listener. I'm great at solving everyone else's problems (isn't that what they say...everyone else's problems should be your own, because we're so great at solving everyone else's?). I like to cook, read, love my wine and I'm a really, really good friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure because no one has told me lately. In the past it was my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love John Grisham and James Patterson. I love old movies and good new ones, good ol' rock and roll and I could survive on wine, cheese and crackers.
Six things I could never do without
My son, my daughter, my grandson, my granddaughter, my parents and the rest of my family. Family is very important to me and that can't be replaced. Everything else can.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I missed out on. Spent alot of time worrying about tomorrow and forgot to live for today.
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking a glass of wine and watching movies, playing with my dogs, taking walks, sometimes not being afraid to go to that huge movie theater by myself, grab a bucket of popcorn and watch a good movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not willing to admit anything private here.
You should message me if
You think you and I would REALLY be compatible so as not to waste eachother's time. I haven't dated much, so patience would be a welcome virtue. I'm a little leary of giving out too much information and especially phone numbers on a dating website to someone I THINK I'm talking to. (I'm an EX-laydeecop, but some things just stay with ya!)
The two of us