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My self-summary
IMPORTANT NOTE: Not interested in dating anyone with kids already. Please move along if this is you.

I am a single guy just into his forties who is looking to date, and possibly fall in love. I am one of those people with a big heart, an easygoing personality, and can also be funny at times. I know who I'm looking for. When I find her, I know she will see me and will also know that whoever she's looking for is standing right in front of her.

I am easygoing, sweet, and fun-loving
What I’m doing with my life
I was a music teacher in my younger days. Then I decided to leave that for IT. Currently I work for a domain registration/Web hosting company.

In my spare time, I try to find time to sing with one or two choirs I usually sing with. When the money allows for it, I also try to travel while on vacation.
I’m really good at
Music (performing it, writing it and listening to it)
Computer stuff (for those who could use some tech support)
The first things people usually notice about me
Definitely my smile. If there have ever been any compliments given about me, that's usually the biggest. After that, probably how easygoing I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

- The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien
- The Killer Angels by Michael Shaara (was made into a 1993 movie that was renamed "Gettysburg")
- Watership Down by Richard Adams
- 2001: A Space Odyssey by Arthur C. Clarke
- Dune by Frank Herbert
- Johnny Got His Gun by Dalton Trumbo -- A Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
- A Song of Ice and Fire by George R.R. Martin
- Ready Player One by Ernest Cline

Movies & TV:

- Clerks
- Ghandi
- Lawrence of Arabia
- Star Wars
- Paths of Glory
- Dr. Strangelove
- Amadeus
- Blade Runner

- Breaking Bad/ Better Call Saul
- Doctor Who (both classic and the reboot)
- Halt and Catch Fire
- Futurama
- PBS docs (especially American Experience, American Masters, and any Ken Burns doc)
- Game of Thrones
- Marvel Netflix shows (Daredevil, a.k.a Jessica Jones, Luke Cage, Iron Fist)
- Cosmos: A Spacetime Odyssey
- Westworld


-Classical: Bach, Mozart, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Copland, Bernstein
-Jazz: Miles Davis, Duke Ellington, Sonny Rollins, Django Reinhardt
-Rock: a lot of different stuff, but primarily Beatles, Yes, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, The Who, Foo Fighters, Nirvana, Dave Matthews Band, 311, thenewno2.
Six things I could never do without
- my computers/Internet connection

- music

- my Blu-Ray player and Roku

- books

- laughter

- my family

- my car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of different things. I guess I mostly think about the direction my life is going, but only in the immediate future. I just think it's more practical to just look a little bit ahead.
On a typical Friday night I am
either at home, at a movie, or just driving around to wherever the night takes me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been in a movie. You'll have to get to know me to find out.
You should message me if
You are looking for someone who will be kind to you; someone who will put all of their heart and soul into a relationship; someone who be there for you, and would want you to be there for him; finally, someone worth spending a long time (possibly your life) with.

For the initial encounter: I'm not one for the "phone dates". I only want to be on the phone to set up a face-to-face meet up. I really believe in meeting someone face-to-face for a simple cup of coffee for at the most an hour. If things go well, fine. If not, oh well. At least both parties got to see each other in the flesh. No one can ever really gauge how things will go over the phone. All that tells me is that you're not interested, and just want to be polite. If that's you, just be straight up with me on how you feel.

Just another thing: Even though I really like kids (I have two nephews whom I love with all my heart), I'd rather not be involved with anyone who already has them; even if they are nieces and/or nephews in the middle of any family turmoil. For those who do, I'm pretty sure you will meet a guy who will be happy to date someone with kids already. I just think I'm not one of those guys. A) Too much chance of dealing with extra drama involving the woman and the kid(s) father (I really don't do well in that kind of environment); B) would rather not have the relationship take a backseat for kids who aren't mine (may sound selfish, but I have to be completely honest); and C) If I ever decided to have kids someday (and at this point I'm not completely sure I want any, but things could always change), I want my future wife and I go through our first time together.
The two of us