lenajellybean
32Riverside, United States
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My self-summary
Loving, caring, quiet, empathetic, infuriating, smart, creative, driven, inattentive, bold, argumentative, sexy.

I do polyamory and am interested in short-term dating relationships at this time. I'm not interested in the following: casual sex, being your unicorn, or helping you cheat on your partner.

Likes: skiing, watching baseball, philosophizing, learning, DWI (dancing while intoxicated), the arts (especially live music), my apartment, my dog, kink, water-related activities, falling asleep on the couch, biting off more than I can chew, inky pens, unwinding.

Dislikes: flying (well - really the idea of crashing), squirrels, other drivers.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a therapist. My job is kind of unique and I need to get to know a person better before I'm able to say more about it. I also teach undergraduate classes on the side and am in the process of completing a Ph.D.

I work hard and I play hard!
I’m really good at
Writing, organizing stuff, being a loyal daughter/sister/friend, and orchestrating adventures.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: To Kill a Mockingbird, White Oleander, Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah, Silence of the Lambs, A Thousand Splendid Suns.

Movies: the original Star Wars trilogy, Forrest Gump, A Christmas Story, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Zombieland, But I'm a Cheerleader.

Music: DMB above all others. Other favorites include: The Killers, Death Cab for Cutie, Fiona Apple, Radiohead, The Offspring, Outkast, Johnny Cash, Weezer, The Dandy Warhols, Fun., Madonna, Electric Light Orchestra, David Bowie, Queen, The Clash, Paul Simon, Led Zeppelin, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Soundgarden, The Shins, The Rolling Stones, The Beatles, Rufus Wainwright, The Beastie Boys, Barenaked Ladies, Elton John, Nirvana, Jack Johnson, Billy Joel, The Violent Femmes, Cake, Jay-Z, Dr. Dog, Carlos Santana, Daft Punk, Credence Clearwater Revival, Janis Joplin, Mariah Carey, The Foo Fighters, Leonard Cohen, Muse, Green Day, The Butthole Surfers, Deep Banana Blackout, and all things Motown.

TV: Designated Survivor, Shameless, House of Cards, Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, Breaking Bad, South Park, The Sopranos, The Golden Girls, Big Love, Lost, Parks and Rec.

I'm a celiac. I love to eat. :D
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ice cream, my dissertation, getting another dog
On a typical Friday night I am
Being a geeky social butterfly or being a geeky homebody, depending on what type of week I've had.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm just like everybody else.
You should message me if
You are NOT a Trump supporter, or otherwise conservative. I'm serious about this. Please do not contact me unless you're fairly liberal. We will not get along otherwise.

You're intelligent, have a good sense of humor, and like to try new things.

You're capable of experiencing and expressing feelings.

You understand how to say "I'm not interested" and are receptive to hearing same.

You're using OKC as a means to an end - ultimately, to connect with folks in person.
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