55Cupertino, United States
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My self-summary
This is where I tell you that I like long walks on the beach, wandering through the wine country and traveling the world to exotic places. And I do, but what does that tell you about who I really am? What we really want from each other is more then a superficial manufactured glimpse, we want to discover each others essence without having to play all the games and wasting a lot of time.

Let me get things started.. It is my profile after all. My life is a mixture of moderation and passion. I enjoy a broad range of activities, foods, intellectual pursuits and travel experiences but in moderation not in excess. Then there are those things that I’m passionate about, all in, sometimes over the top. they include loving relationships built on mutual: strong and honest communication, loyalty, romance, understanding and shared appreciation of humor and the wonderment that surrounds us. I’m also passionate about, technology that improves our lives, reforming the way we educate our kids, online safety, government overreach, solutions to our energy and natural resource challenges, cooking on my green egg, staying fit playing paddle sports and the time I get to spend raising my daughter.

Now back the the commercial, I’m talk dark and handsome as long as that means short, sunburned and comfortable in your own skin. Having said that, I have found that comparisons to George Clooney have died down in recent years, but comparisons to George Castansa are sky rocketing!

So I know what you are thinking, what is it that a “total package” like myself looks for in finding that illusive, heart racing, knee buckling, side splitting, last relationship? I'm looking for someone comes to laughter quickly, share emotions freely, displays passion without limits and drinks daily from the fountain of lives pleasures.

Oh and you must be willing to jump into the abyss with no life jacket. If that is you please contact me! No I really mean it!
What I’m doing with my life
I have a fun job working with ethical hackers, while yes it would be more fun to work with unethical hackers - I have never felt I would do well in jail. Plus I like being the good guy! White Hats make me look thinner and taller.

I'm also raising a kid 50% of the time and like to volunteer in causes that I believe in.
I’m really good at
I'm a great first date, but please don't propose at least until the second date when I run out of interesting things to say. I was at one time a National Champion in a sport that no one has ever heard of. I'm a great friend and my passion in life is kicking political correctness in the ass, in favor of common sense!

Oh and I also cook a mean bowl of cold cereal.
The first things people usually notice about me
People around me laughing and having a good time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like reading bio and history. Movies, I'm in to formulaic comedies, action pictures were you can cheer the hero and strangely enough independent films most of which leaving me pondering what I just watched.

If there is a type of music that isn't on my ipod right now I would be amazed. The a quick query of the genius buttons database will convince you that I might have a multiple personality issue.

Food to me is a journey. Life is short and some many things to try. When I travel to distant places, I actually take pride in getting sick at least once. As I'm lying on the floor I think to myself what wonderful things I would miss tasting if I played it safe.

In the last 45 days I have spent time in London, Dublin, Shanghai and Munich. My conclusions are that I love dim sum, corned beef and cabbage taste better in New York then Dublin, though Dublin has better Irish Whiskey! I believe there is a British law outlawing flavor and taste. Love the food / beer in Munich but, no sauerkraut is not a replacement for fries!
Six things I could never do without
Laughter, warm climate, a spell checker, the knowledge of how blessed we are to live in such interesting times. OH and of course Sex, Drugs and Rock and Roll... well not the drugs but Sex and Rock and Roll just didn't sound right alone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Current events kind of a news junkie, I'm very into US energy policy, I believe in a balanced approach. I'm spend time thinking about my daughters lack of rebellion - we are working on it. I tried dressing her all in black but she ended up covered with dog hair.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm thinking of how much more fun it would be sitting with you in the hot tub, under the stars, drinking fine wine and eating pork rinds. Just not the same alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
still thinking about it
You should message me if
If you breath air, you eat food, your glass is always half full and you want to meet someone who will make your sides hurt from laughing, heart flutter and left pinky toe swell. *I promise to take dancing lessons ***
The two of us