lilacnsilver
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My self-summary
I'm in an open marriage. I can be shy and reserved at first, but you'll learn that I have a wicked and twisted sense of humour once you get to know me. I'm a liberal-minded, down-to-earth lover of the arts and human kindness.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning all the time.

Making my way between the literal and the figurative. Sometimes tentative, sometimes sure-footed. Often directionless, except for the push of some words.
I’m really good at
The word game Taboo. But oh the beastly competitiveness it awakens in me.
The first things people usually notice about me
My falling asleep on the subway.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books. I tend to prefer fiction, and mostly character-driven works at that. I'm not one for epics or books about shopping, but I don't discount these either. I like terse fiction with lots of blanks for me to fill in, which explains why I'm a fan of the novella and poetry. The works of Jean Rhys and J.M. Coetzee are particular favourites of mine. I can't forget Gorey's The Gashlycrumb Tinies. And of course, the dictionary.

Shows. Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, Inside Amy Schumer, Broad City, Portlandia. Carrie Brownstein. My heart goes boom, boom, boom.

Music. Never a purist. I like everything from rock to hip hop to classical to blues to dance to folk to metal to whatever moves me intellectually, emotionally, physically. Music is good.

Food. Thai, Japanese, Indian, Vegan, Vegetarian. Yum!

Movies...Yeah, that's a discussion. Lately I lean more towards documentaries. Recent favourite Netflix offerings include: How to Die in Oregon, First Position, and The Punk Singer.
Six things I could never do without
The people I love
Art
Great food and drink
Intimacy
Humour
My conscience
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Chocolate, French pastries, and exercise.

Scotch. Delicious single malt Scotch. Always neat. Seriously, I want to go to Scotland and tour the distilleries. Someday...someday.

What makes a good, solid human being.
On a typical Friday night I am
Marvelling at how Netflix has taken over the world.

Or doing exactly what you imagine I'm doing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Kink.
You should message me if
You are polyamorous/open/non-monogamous. (This does not mean that you MUST be in an open relationship right now. It simply means you get it. We share a preference and an understanding. It goes beyond tolerance. Tolerance won't do.)

You are a Dominant.

**Please don't message me if your partner is not aware of your OKC profile. The same applies if your profile indicates or implies that you are monogamous and/or looking for "the one." I'm not here to act as a stopover or distraction for you. FTS.**

"Che bel fin fa chi ben amando more."
"What a lovely way to burn."
(No bonus points awarded. You've had them the whole time.)
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