54Lawrence, United States
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My self-summary
I am a beautiful self sufficient woman with a big heart, great personality and fantastic tits. LOL. I love throwing that in there cuz its true. Any way been divorced for 20 yrs now and let my self go, while raising 3 wonderful kids on my own. A lawyer, fireman and computer technician. I have lost almost 100 lbs in the last year the hard way. I considered surgery but I don't really get off on taking the easy way out. I figured I could do it my self and I am. I dont know if thats a great opener but am new to this and I want to meet someone who will be honest and up front as well, I am all about honesty and truth. I dont play games and dont get played either. I am a grown women and have been there and done that. If you know what I mean. I would love to be asked out on a date as I have such pretty new dresses now and want to wear them to a nice place. Dating sites don't have to be complicated, you cant really tell what a person is like until you meet them. Even pictures dont really speak a thousand words. Would love to fall in love.
What I’m doing with my life
Creating a beautiful future for myself. I have been dumping emotional baggage with every pound I lose. I am building my clientele at a salon in Lawrence and working full time at another job. I am a very busy women and I like it. My future is looking brighter and lighter everyday.
I’m really good at
Making people feel comfortable and safe. They tell me anything. I guess that's because when I am behind the chair doing their hair their mouths just open up and tell me all kinds of things. If I had a license to be a psychologist I would be. People feel safe telling me their secrets because they know I keep them to myself and only tell my dog or my God if I have to.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and infectious attitude about life, also people have been wondering where I am going as I have lost over 100 lbs this last year. I did it by working out and eating less. I love my new me and I get smaller everyday. I am changing my life pound by pound and am very proud of me. I also help others by sharing my story and inspiring them to change their lives in good, healthy ways.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all kinds of food in moderation. I watch a lot of movies and consider myself a Movie Buff. I do read books often and love to get to the ocean. Any beach will do as long as its not man made.
Six things I could never do without
The Ocean
My Kids
Great friends
Good conversation
My Scale
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future and where God is leading me in my life. Every day I praise the lord for being a light unto my path. I am thankful to be who I am today and would like to share my life with a love that will last forever.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably watching a movie and getting organized for my work day on Saturday. Then on Sunday I am getting organized for my 3 10 hour shifts at work and on my days off I go to the Salon and make people look great as I am also a part time hairstylist.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is that I let my self go for a long time. I got divorced 20 yrs ago and hung on to the pain and bitterness that made me gain weight. I will never let that happen again. I have always been a hot sexy woman and never had any problems getting a man. I was told by many people that a lot of men like big women. I call bullshit on that. If I don't like me than how can I expect someone else to like me. I didn't feel comfortable in my body and now I am changing it. I am enjoying every minute of the ride too. Every morning I weigh myself and everyday I see more pounds drop. I am going to be so hot I cant hardly stand it. haha.
You should message me if
You would like to see me in person and take me on a date so I can get all dolled up like the beautiful woman I am. But please dont ask me to email you off the site, until we get to know each other I will not give out my personal info to anyone. Thanks.
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