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I'm Lindy! And for the record, no it's not my real name. It's a nickname I have that everybody in the world uses for me. It started off as a small, inside joke my freshman year. And it kind of stuck with me. I think it makes me unique :D
I know who I am and I can be very independent. I don't want to be with you because I need you financially, but because I want you there -kind of thing. I love a person that can make me laugh. I wouldn't be able to stick through a dull relationship. And I like to look good, so it would be nice if someone in this world (other than family) could understand that. The weather determines my mood. Rain reminds me of tears, and well, I'm tired of crying. I like the little things in life- cartoons, carnivals, rollercoasters ...haha&materialistic things have a place in my heart, too. It doesn't take very much to make me happy. The moment I feel unappreciated or unloved, I do lose interest, though. So keep the kisses coming (: I return always<3
edit 03.29.2015; I think I'm a little burnt out on heterosexual relationships. My first serious relationship, a boyfriend from my senior year in high school, lasted about two years, and he ended up leaving me for someone else. Two months later, I met and fell in love with my husband (and father of my child). We were together for three years, and he passed away on Nov. 2014. We were only together for a short amount of time, but it was the most intimate and honest relationship that I have ever known (in my life!). Unfortunately, I'm beginning to think that I'm not going to be able to find someone that can talk to me without mentioning sex ('sexy') within the first few conversations or first few months. I am seriously beginning to think that chivalry and the wooing style really IS dead, and that I am meant to be alone for the rest of my life. If you were looking for honesty, this is where my mindset is currently at. Just an FYI.
edit 08.04.2015; I'M NOT INTERESTED, MALES. OK?! NOT IN DISRESPECTING MYSELF THROUGH AN FWB RELATIONSHIP, NOT INTERESTED IN HANGING OUT SOMETIME WITH YOU AND YOUR HIDDEN AGENDA OR APPARENT STRUGGLE WITH HONESTY. NOT INTERESTED IN GIVING YOU THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT LIKE I'VE POINTLESSLY BEEN DOING OVER AND OVER. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE. YOU'VE ALL DONE ENOUGH, KTHNX.
*disappears into the darkness*
In all honesty, I would rather drop college [✓ (I'm on a temporary hiatus until I can afford to complete my studies at a university)] to [✓] work full-time. I would love to [✓] purchase my own vehicle and [✓] apartment. And this way, I can also start [ ] building my own personal recording studio (or the equipment for it, anyway), which is what I want to be professionally - a music producer (:
That's kind of far-fetched, I know. But I'm a dreamer<3
edit 12.30.2013; The dream is on hold, and reality is starting to slowly seep into my perspective on life. I'm working full time until I can return to a university to finish my bachelor's degree program (of a different major). Music is still my first love, though ♥
I am passionately and strongly interested in starting my own life coaching business. That's one of my main focuses right now when I am not working; I have been designing and coding websites since I was around 12 years old, so I'm currently tweaking the website for my business. And I've been researching business (marketing, branding, social media networking, etc.) for almost a year and a half now. Like I said, I feel very passionate about it :P
I do have an entrepreneurial spirit and mindset.
edit 03.29.2015; I'm currently finishing my studies to be an LCDC (Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor), and I often get overly distracted/busy with my business: Lindy's Life Coaching, LLC. ...Yup. That pretty much sums up my life.
Seriously, though, I think I can sing better than some of the recording artists out there. I'm too creative for my own good. I can impress you with my social skills (though I tend to be blunt) or stun you with my Spanish skills. Sleeping has to be up there, too; I'm a girl that enjoys her 12hr naps haha.. And 1-2hr steamy hot showers ;] There's a whole list of qualities I have, but a lady never tells all of her secrets.
I'll leave it up to you to figure everything else out [;
● i take pride in my hair, so it looks good when i`m out (:
● for some reason, my eyes lead others to believe i`m asian (i`m not!) lol
& ● if all of the above fail, i`m complimented on my kissable lips +/or lipring ;p
edit 12.30.2013; no more lipring :/ I had to take it out because it kept hitting my teeth and gums. I had it for two years, and I may have it re-pierced whenever I return to school. I don't know, though lol.
I'll watch anything from Legally Blonde to The Exorcist to Taken :]
My favorite types are comedies, horror, and psychological thrillers.
+Step Up, Save the Last Dance, The Number 23, Shudder Island, Inception, Hancock, Hitch, Miss March, Fired Up, etc.
I try to keep my musical tastes versatile; Though my favorites tend to be 'pop'ular and hip hop -whether it be for a dancing need or a mood setting requirement-, I appreciate all styles from country, classical, and rock to techno, rhythm&blues, and metal. As a music artist and producer, I believe it's important to understand them all. No hate, just love<3
I'm constantly craving Chinese and Italian food; I've grown up on Mexican food. And my mom does not believe in anything else. I mean, other than tacos, quesadillas, enchiladas, fish, soup, pizza, and cheeseburgers. I never even was allowed to eat macaroni and cheese or fries D: But do not fret, my friend, I eat whatever I please now :]
● tunes [+& iphone 4] - iphone 6s now
● Charmed tv show LOL - torn between Charmed & Breaking Bad <3
● my Mac laptop [it's my baby] :p - thinking of making a Hackintosh
● those love feelings that turn me into a hopeless romantic
● my sweet-talking charm + social skills
● and of course, I would be nowhere without family <3
This helps a potential relationship in the future because the common dating anxiety factor (which can be responsible for self fulfilling prophecies and self sabotages towards the 'relationship') is removed from the critical early stages of the relationship.
But I have come to the conclusion that most users on OkCupid either truly are unaware of what they are seeking, or have an unrealistic idealism of what they are seeking. So, I seek in silence if for nothing more than analytical purposes.
^This an example of how I talk and think to family. I'm naturally psychologically and physically analytical (like a wizard of deception detection/truth wizard; Google it). I usually "dumb myself down" to others for easy comprehension purposes.
• you are interested in attending movie screenings with me :)
• you can do a badass impression of a breaking bad character lol
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fyi: Blushing, stuttering, and shyness in talking with the one you are attracted to are characteristics that I'm highly attracted to lol.