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My self-summary
Bimbos, dumb broads, whores, & manipulators;
if you are reading this, click the [x] at the top right corner of your screen.
I'm here for real people only (:

Ellos :}
I'm Lindy! And for the record, no it's not my real name. It's a nickname I have that everybody in the world uses for me. It started off as a small, inside joke my freshman year. And it kind of stuck with me. I think it makes me unique :D

I know who I am and I can be very independent. I don't want to be with you because I need you financially, but because I want you there -kind of thing. I love a person that can make me laugh. I wouldn't be able to stick through a dull relationship. And I like to look good, so it would be nice if someone in this world (other than family) could understand that. The weather determines my mood. Rain reminds me of tears, and well, I'm tired of crying. I like the little things in life- cartoons, carnivals, rollercoasters ...haha&materialistic things have a place in my heart, too. It doesn't take very much to make me happy. The moment I feel unappreciated or unloved, I do lose interest, though. So keep the kisses coming (: I return always<3

twitter: @lindylopez
instagram: @omfgitslindylopez

edit 03.29.2015; I think I'm a little burnt out on heterosexual relationships. My first serious relationship, a boyfriend from my senior year in high school, lasted about two years, and he ended up leaving me for someone else. Two months later, I met and fell in love with my husband (and father of my child). We were together for three years, and he passed away on Nov. 2014. We were only together for a short amount of time, but it was the most intimate and honest relationship that I have ever known (in my life!). Unfortunately, I'm beginning to think that I'm not going to be able to find someone that can talk to me without mentioning sex ('sexy') within the first few conversations or first few months. I am seriously beginning to think that chivalry and the wooing style really IS dead, and that I am meant to be alone for the rest of my life. If you were looking for honesty, this is where my mindset is currently at. Just an FYI.

*disappears into the darkness*
What I’m doing with my life
I'm attending a community college for music; It's my world. And it's the only major I'm interested in. But unfortunately, I'm not college material. So, I have a hard time often with classes because I'm not challenged and often re-learning material in core courses. Very irritating and tedious to be in an environment where you catch on quickly, but have to wait for the rest of the class to catch up with you.

In all honesty, I would rather drop college [✓ (I'm on a temporary hiatus until I can afford to complete my studies at a university)] to [✓] work full-time. I would love to [✓] purchase my own vehicle and [✓] apartment. And this way, I can also start [ ] building my own personal recording studio (or the equipment for it, anyway), which is what I want to be professionally - a music producer (:

That's kind of far-fetched, I know. But I'm a dreamer<3

edit 12.30.2013; The dream is on hold, and reality is starting to slowly seep into my perspective on life. I'm working full time until I can return to a university to finish my bachelor's degree program (of a different major). Music is still my first love, though ♥


I am passionately and strongly interested in starting my own life coaching business. That's one of my main focuses right now when I am not working; I have been designing and coding websites since I was around 12 years old, so I'm currently tweaking the website for my business. And I've been researching business (marketing, branding, social media networking, etc.) for almost a year and a half now. Like I said, I feel very passionate about it :P
I do have an entrepreneurial spirit and mindset.

edit 03.29.2015; I'm currently finishing my studies to be an LCDC (Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor), and I often get overly distracted/busy with my business: Lindy's Life Coaching, LLC. ...Yup. That pretty much sums up my life.
I’m really good at
sweet talking your pants off! ;p
Seriously, though, I think I can sing better than some of the recording artists out there. I'm too creative for my own good. I can impress you with my social skills (though I tend to be blunt) or stun you with my Spanish skills. Sleeping has to be up there, too; I'm a girl that enjoys her 12hr naps haha.. And 1-2hr steamy hot showers ;] There's a whole list of qualities I have, but a lady never tells all of her secrets.
I'll leave it up to you to figure everything else out [;
The first things people usually notice about me
● i`m tinyy
● i take pride in my hair, so it looks good when i`m out (:
● for some reason, my eyes lead others to believe i`m asian (i`m not!) lol
& ● if all of the above fail, i`m complimented on my kissable lips +/or lipring ;p

edit 12.30.2013; no more lipring :/ I had to take it out because it kept hitting my teeth and gums. I had it for two years, and I may have it re-pierced whenever I return to school. I don't know, though lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books; I guess you can say I've learned almost everything from them. Instead of playing outside with others when I was younger, I usually had my nose stuck in a book. Anything from learning how to do tasks like telling the temperature by a cricket's chirp to the Harry Potter series. I'll read whatever catches my eye. And with that said, I suppose my favorite right now is: Only As Good As Your Word. But top three books are: Where The Red Fern Grows, Confessions of A Back Up Dancer, and Fearless.
I'll watch anything from Legally Blonde to The Exorcist to Taken :]
My favorite types are comedies, horror, and psychological thrillers.
+Step Up, Save the Last Dance, The Number 23, Shudder Island, Inception, Hancock, Hitch, Miss March, Fired Up, etc.
I try to keep my musical tastes versatile; Though my favorites tend to be 'pop'ular and hip hop -whether it be for a dancing need or a mood setting requirement-, I appreciate all styles from country, classical, and rock to techno, rhythm&blues, and metal. As a music artist and producer, I believe it's important to understand them all. No hate, just love<3
I'm constantly craving Chinese and Italian food; I've grown up on Mexican food. And my mom does not believe in anything else. I mean, other than tacos, quesadillas, enchiladas, fish, soup, pizza, and cheeseburgers. I never even was allowed to eat macaroni and cheese or fries D: But do not fret, my friend, I eat whatever I please now :]
Six things I could never do without
..&all in no order whatsoever;
● tunes [+& iphone 4] - iphone 6s now
● Charmed tv show LOL - torn between Charmed & Breaking Bad <3
● my Mac laptop [it's my baby] :p - thinking of making a Hackintosh
● those love feelings that turn me into a hopeless romantic
● my sweet-talking charm + social skills
● and of course, I would be nowhere without family <3
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the popularity of my profile among male users instead of female users; the possibility that female users on this website are too shallow to associate with; the high chances that OkCupid fails because most users have an unrealistic idealism of what they are seeking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I use OkCupid like a social media website for friends instead of a "dating" website (studies show couples that were friends first have a higher chance of staying together for a longer period of time, and it's just common sense? Lol).
This helps a potential relationship in the future because the common dating anxiety factor (which can be responsible for self fulfilling prophecies and self sabotages towards the 'relationship') is removed from the critical early stages of the relationship.

But I have come to the conclusion that most users on OkCupid either truly are unaware of what they are seeking, or have an unrealistic idealism of what they are seeking. So, I seek in silence if for nothing more than analytical purposes.

^This an example of how I talk and think to family. I'm naturally psychologically and physically analytical (like a wizard of deception detection/truth wizard; Google it). I usually "dumb myself down" to others for easy comprehension purposes.
You should message me if
• you think you can handle me ;p
• you are interested in attending movie screenings with me :)
• you can do a badass impression of a breaking bad character lol
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fyi: Blushing, stuttering, and shyness in talking with the one you are attracted to are characteristics that I'm highly attracted to lol.
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