One last thing, I not looking for a man to take care of me financially, but I am looking for a man who can take care of himself. If you can't afford to take care of yourself and your responsibilities (whatever they are) buy me a nice meal once a month or one for yourself, then don't bother contacting me. Its not about the meal by the way, its more about your financial independence.
water, mountains, art, touch, communication, interesting experiences
And on a more serious note...I'm not going to have sex with you if I haven't gotten to know you well enough to like you and trust that your without STDs.
I don't like to hurt people's feelings so if I don't feel that we are a good match, I won't keep seeing you. Please don't take it personally. Us not being a good match doesn't mean you are not a real great guy; it just means your not THE real great guy for me. I don't expect you to change who you are for me. Be yourself and have fun looking for the girl that fits!