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My self-summary
Even though I enjoy thinking and wrestling w complex things: music, books, movies and the like- generally I'm somewhat a simple soul. I want to be kind and loving to someone who will be kind and loving to me. Seems simple....and maybe it is.

I'm a musician, a writer, a photographer, a singer, a grand appreciator, a serious cuddler, a collector of obscure and inadvertent humor, and an empath. Whew, I exhaust me! Fortunately, i don't try to get all of those things done at once....
What I’m doing with my life
I have to admit, I like my life. I'm a classical pianist and piano teacher, do some performing and occasional recording. I'm an avid photographer, and love looking for historical cemeteries, abandoned houses, and everything in nature that makes the heart happy. in november I completed the training that will allow me to become a professional conflict mediator. I've become involved in the twin cities spiritual community, which has me at drum circles and solstice blessings. I'm always curious and love supporting friends and family in whichever direction their dreams can take them.

I enjoy being extremely open-minded. And while I'd love to have a romantic someone in my life, I'm not really looking to live with anyone...i love my space. but as far as the long term future goes? anything's possible!
I’m really good at
Comfortable silences. Appreciating. Conversation. Getting into the top 15% of your brain and not going deeper until I'm invited. And yeah, really enjoy being extremely sensuous w the man who appreciates me and makes me comfortable enough. Absolutely adore the strong-but-gentle type who loves telling and showing me what he wants...
The first things people usually notice about me
Is the fact that I'm a tall, generous, full-figured woman who enjoys herself, has a great smile and a kind heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:The heart is a lonely hunter, five smooth stones, poetry by ee cummings, emily dickinson, neruda, roethke and rilke. Classic sci-fi-. heinlein and bradbury. the fountainhead. movies: king of hearts, a thousand clowns, the music teacher, as dreams may come, mr hulot's holiday, the music teacher, young frankenstein ("that's Fronkensteen!"), princess bride, dinner w/ andre, women in love. Music: classical, classical, classical..but also like classic jazz and blues and the greats- (ella, oscar, billie etc) and 60s and 70s and motown on road trips. Tv? not much time for it, but love history and discovery and travel. Something you like but I don't? No prob...i can read a book or hang out while you watch it :-)
Six things I could never do without
Dreams, both waking and sleeping.
Good loving from a perceptive man.
Time for coffee, writing and conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Travel. How things work. music. photography. how I can make both of us even happier. How grateful I am for this life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either chilling at home w the computer, writing and catching up from the week, or coordinating dinner plans w someone. When I'm involved w someone? Nothing better than staying home....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Naaaaah can't say that in public...but yeah,.I truly do love it.
You should message me if
you're strong and independant and somehow able to read through the lines and realize there's someone there you might need to know more about.
The two of us