57Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
I’m one of those native New Yorkers whose breath is still taken away at the sight of the Brooklyn Bridge. But I’m not New York-centric (oh, just a little bit.) I love to travel—Spain and Portugal are two of my favorite destinations. I definitely have disparate sides. I read the New York Times but love the Daily News (or used to, anyway). I listen to Dylan but dance to Prince. Faulkner is fun but so is a Yankee game.

I believe in passion in all parts of my life and seek that out in my work and relationships. I love being in my body, and doing things that engage all my senses--touch, taste, sight, sound. I enjoy exploring body movement like the 5 Rhythms. I love working out on a regular basis and I am often on a bike or the elliptical. Riding my bike around Brooklyn and walking city streets and country trails gives me a lot of pleasure.

I am a warm, caring, open-minded person who is interested in other people. My other interests: translating Ladino literature, urban culture, Indie movies, annual pilgrimages to the New Orleans Jazz Fest, novels & memoirs, family and friends.

I would love to be with a man who is warm, compassionate, honest, intelligent, & sensual; someone who sees adventure in everyday life; someone who is passionate and into exploring all aspects of a relationship, someone who has an appreciation of high and low culture--that means we can read Rilke’s poetry one moment and watch Seinfeld the next. We would both find conventionality boring.

I am open-minded, warmhearted, and curious.
What I’m doing with my life
Being open to the possibility of change and growth...

Connecting with friends and family, having adventures, reading novels, traveling whenever I can, walking the city streets, journaling, moving my body.
I’m really good at
Listening, traveling into the unknown, appreciating NYC, appreciating life outside of NYC.
The first things people usually notice about me
My friendly smile, deep brown eyes, silvery hair, dangling earrings, La Font glasses and New York sensibility.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Giovanni's Room; Leviathan; Bel Canto;The History of Love; What I Loved; Tristam Shandy; Hamlet; The Fortress of Solitude; Anything by Hemingway or Faulkner; Rilke's "Letters to a Young Poet"; Howl & Kaddish; Leaves of Grass; The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay;

West Side Story; Let No Man Write my Epitaph; Casablanca; Fellini; Hitchcock; Kurosawa; The Shawshank Redemption; My Beautiful Launderette; Cinema Paradiso; Dog Day Afternoon; Dirty Dancing; The Godfather; A Streetcar Named Desire; On the Waterfront; White Christmas; Oklahoma; Fiddler on the Roof; To Kill a Mockingbird; To Have and to Have Not; Moonstruck; The Dirty Dozen; Network; South Pacific; Some Like it Hot; American Graffiti

I go to the New Orleans Jazz Fest every year--and it brings me unfettered joy, I love Dylan, Prince, Ella Fitzgerald, Louie Armstrong, Sonny Rollins,The Beatles, Elvis Costello, Patti Smith, Talking Heads, James Carter (I first saw him at the Newport jazz festival), Trombone Shorty.

Good NYC pizza, sushi, grilled veggies and chicken, avocados; good Thai food; dark chocolate (does that count as food?)
Six things I could never do without
My journal; dark chocolate; a great novel; close friends and family; Walks around NYC; touch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life; love; traveling the world; great writers, openhearted communication.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am looking forward to relaxing--either going out with friends or enjoying time at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I would love to be the raven-haired lady of poetry and song but, alas, I'm severely allergic to hair dye.
You should message me if
You feel that we have something in common and want a heart connection.
The two of us