41 Princeton, United States
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My self-summary
Would very much like to meet concert buddies, coffee partners, and brunch dates. I'm academic and I like academics.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a librarian - I mostly answer questions, you know?
I’m really good at
I can go from clean-shaven to bearded in two weeks flat.

My skills include bookbinding, book repair, and book collecting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I expect to spend the rest of my life reading Henry James novels, and I would be very happy to meet anyone who has a second-favorite Henry James novel. For nonfiction, I like M.F.K. Fisher, A.J. Liebling, and Pauline Kael. RIP Jenny Diski.

Music is pretty good. I used to like music more than anything, then I started to prefer food to music, and lately I'm back to music again!
The six things I could never do without
Can we compare lists of things we could always do without, instead? Let's share phobias and aversions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
ludonarrative dissonance
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I used to shoplift at IKEA but I don't do that anymore.
You should message me if
According to the New York Times, there are certain ways you can tell if someone's lying on an online profile: "Liars tend to use fewer first-person pronouns. [...] Liars use more negative words like 'not' and 'never,' [...] use fewer negative emotion words like 'sad' and 'upset,' and they write shorter online personal essays." Clearly there's a strong correlation between lying and being charismatic and mysterious, so if you're a liar, let's talk.

Also, I would like to meet Margaret Atwood -- you should message me if you are Margaret Atwood.

I'm interested in meeting people with obscure motives.