38Holyoke, United States
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My self-summary
I've got a soft heart and a strong mind. I am aggressively optimismistic. I practice radical acceptance as often as I can catch it. I like adventures near and far. I prefer to play outside and local dives over crowds and hype. On occasion I like to wear nice clothes and go out. Mostly though I like hiking, even in the rain.

I take people like I take my coffee, just as they are. I spend most of my free time with my friendmaly.

I prefer to hang out with cool dudes and let any romance happen or not. I know what I want, if you're a guy I want to spend more time with, I'll let ya know. Till then let's just take it one step at a time and have FUN! Ultimately I'm looking for a partner to build a life together. I need someone who can have fun and work hard. I'm not one to place lifetime expectations on a seasonal relationship. If we are meant to last past a season well both make it happen. If not, it's all good. I'd prefer to enjoy your company while it lasts and learn a thing or two.

"She had the courage to bet on herself... She went all in... And won."
What I’m doing with my life
Disc golf, yoga, hiking, bike riding, drawing, trivia, CAMPING! :) playing pool, darts, shuffleboard, corn hole, bowling, art, trying new restaurants, finding tucked away places that rock.

9-5 Monday through Friday working as a therapist normalizing weirdness :)
I’m really good at

I'm also a great cook, and I'm great with maps and directions.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually people notice my free spirit and positive attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: pride and prejudice, the book thief, the yamas and te niyamas

Tv: I don't watch much, unless its NOVA or nature on WGbY. Although I watched some shows on netflix that i liked. arrested development and modern family. I recently discovered the show Hannibal. I am hooked. I think it is do well done. Dark and seductively takes you inside Hannibals madness...

Movies: so many. The Godfather, a Bronx tale, what dreams may come, boogie nights, red dragon, the curious case of Benjamin button, the point, castles in the sky, brave, the man from snowy river, Dallas buyers club, baraka,

Music: Love local and live music. I went to see Muse recently it was awesome. I like variety
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Disc golf
The universe
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends - usually either hanging with friends, live music, or drawing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love to hold hands and skip
I tend to be attracted to men who do not adhere to the gender binary.
You should message me if
You're solid in who you are, authentic and are willing to take risks in life. Oh and you like to play outside;)
The two of us