28 Wrightsville, United States
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My self-summary
I want someone who can keep up with my busy schedule and whisk me away when I need a break from it all. I want someone who is confident in themselves, someone who has their own interests. I think relationships work best when you can share some things, but still have something that's yours.

I am overworked, easygoing, and hopeful
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the mental health/IDD field. I've been working in that field for 10 years and I love working with my clients, but lately I've been entertaining the idea of a career change. I strongly believe every person needs to be treated with respect. I need someone who feels the same way.
I’m really good at
multitasking and I'm getting decent at some DIY projects since I bought my house
The first things people usually notice about me
I have been told my eyes, but I think each person notices what is important to them. Hopefully it is a positive observation :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like classics and horror books. Though I admit I don't read nearly as often as I should.
Movies: I love chick flicks that are set in olden times (anything before the 1900s). I love horror and suspense too. Boondock Saints, Fight Club, and Robinhood Men in Tights are some of my top picks though. You can never watch those movies to many times.
Music:I listen to a wide variety. I have a little bit of music ADD. i mainly listen to alternative rock and country though. Some of my other favorites include: oldies, pop, rock, and sometimes Celtic music.
Food: Basically anything Italian is a good bet. I don't really like spicy food and my friends quickly realize I eat the same few things when we go to a restaurant (but why mess with a good thing?). But there are a few things that people also seem to comment on. When I eat grilled cheese I have to have ketchup to dip the sandwich in. And my favorite ice cream of all time is dark chocolate ice cream with gummy bears on top ( I guess people think the gummy bears are weird?? Don't knock it until you try it though)
The six things I could never do without
Material things are nice to have but I can do without them. Good friends and family are things I can't live without. Sometimes i isolate myself but I always need those people that I can turn to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to get through the day and what might be in store for tomorrow.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working late- it depends on when I get out but most nights I just head home and have a drink. I like going out to eat, bonfires, small parties or going to a bar. I generally like less crowded scenes. I feel that I can have a better time with a few close friends/family rather than a huge party of acquaintances
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well it's no fun giving away all the secrets =)
You should message me if
-You're not looking for one night stands
-Can at least tolerate country music. I do listen to it along with a lot of other music but I grew up on it and you can't abandon your roots. =)
-Don't play mind games. I don't do it and I get really mad when someone tries to pull it over on me.
-You are single (aka no girlfriend/wife, if you are just causally dating someone she should know you are on here looking for other people)
-you're honest. I can't stand liars. Other not so great qualities don't bother me as long as your honest
-Tattoos are a plus =)
-I guess if you read this much you have a little interest. Shoot me a message. I always try to respond =)