37 Emmett, United States
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My self-summary
First and foremost - Do not be afraid to message me first! I have messaged people and gotten no response, or have gotten a response but then get ignored because I have a kid. Or I get people who want to try and convince me to get my operation reversed so I can have kids. Makes me less likely to contact first at this point.

I now have more current pictures. And I'm SMILING! Will wonders ever cease?

I am a geek, obviously, and with that comes a certain amount of social awkwardness. It's who I am. I have had some bad luck, apparently because this is me. So I might as well get it out right up front. Not the best, socially(see the geek comment), but I'm trying to nudge my nose out of this shell.

I like to have fun, but not spend a lot. Walking, watching a movie, or just enjoying company work well for me. I laugh easily, and love a good joke.

I tend to be loyal, and put a lot of who I am into every relationship - friends or otherwise. It's just who I am.

I'm big on meeting people. I'm sorry, it's the way i am. I can get a better idea of a person by interacting with them in person. That does not mean I'm going to go from saying hi on OKC to "Wanna meet", but I am also not opposed to it if that is you.

I can't have anymore kids. I do have a son, born in 2010. He is such a wonderful kid, and very well behaved. He is with me full time, and he is my number one priority after God. He makes me smile at the silliest stuff.

I like World of Warcraft, most movies, and role playing games in general. I am getting back in touch with my religious side, and am becoming more serious about that.

I am Loyal, funny, and geeky.
What I’m doing with my life
Loving my job, and looking forward. Want to get into training or management, both of which will probably require some more school.

Basically, enjoying life, and being me.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. I love playing video games, good at a few of them, wouldn't say I'm great or anything. I'm good at making people feel comfortable, and have been told I give AWESOME back rubs.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not sure, really. I read a lot? My eyes? My sorta geeky laugh? My obsession with anime and video games. Maybe that's it...

Just been told I have a nice smile. Hmm...I need to update my pictures with a smiling one methinks...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Tolkein, Twilight, Stephen King, John Grisham, Robert Jordan, Michael Chrichton, Tony Hillerman...if you think of an author or book I need to try, let me know. I'm always open to reading new things.

Movies: Most anything, really. Some of my favorites are the Matrix trilogy, Harry Potter, Speed Racer, most Anime. I really like the mummy movies with Brendan Fraser(sp?).

Music: Again, most anything. Not too big on rap, or some of the metal out there. I like Dragonforce and some of what Akon has come out with. I also listen to country, light rock(Delilah is great for the ride home), and talk radio(yes, talk radio).

Food: Chinese, hands down.
The six things I could never do without
My son, my computer, my friends, my family, love, hmm...almost there...and I can't think of a sixth. Oh...duh...books.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why certain scenes in movies, certain places in video games, and certain songs can evoke such strong emotion.

Yes, Ms. Gainsborough, I'm talking about you.

Triple bonus points if you get that reference.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home reading, on the computer, or sleeping. I'm not big on going out unless it's with friends, who are generally all working. I don't care for the club or bar scene.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am, at this time, really afraid that I won't find someone who I genuinely care about, and who genuinely cares about me, until after my son is grown, and I'm an old man. It is so hard to do things with other adults with a child, as everything has to be child friendly.
You should message me if
You are willing to accept me and where I'm at in life. A single dad who can't have any more kids. Someone who his God and his son are the two top priorities in life. Someone who isn't rich in things. You can't take things with you after you die, after all.

You want to take a walk in the park, enjoy life.