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My self-summary
I didn't become who I am until yesterday. Every day is an opportunity for self-discovery and every day I become more myself. I like who that person is, but that's kind of a new feeling for me. I'm self-aware and creative so that means I'm probably a little neurotic.

I could also say I look like a young Orson Welles, I have a quick wit, I tell good stories and I love the company of animals. Dogs, mostly. But cats are okay. I love all creatures.

I also have a job, a car, a savings account, a loving family, great friends and a reliable support structure. I'm not looking for anything in particular and I'm in no rush. I want to connect to other people in a meaningful way -- I'm not seeking random sex.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a weird handful of years behind me. I got to travel a lot. I had successes in my career. I started a new career (which I love). I helped care for a sick parent. I went on a road trip with a stranger. I made lots of friends. I started new projects. I moved to Pittsburgh (I've lived in the area for 10 years, but never in the city).

I've done a lot of great stuff and I want to do more. I want to travel. I want to help the local art scene. I want everybody to be happy and healthy, too.
I’m really good at
making fart noises with my hands:
The first things people usually notice about me
Half of my mustache is white. Strangers comment on it almost every day. I don't mind. I guess I like the attention.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a mix of trashy pop culture and sort of highbrow educational stuff -- one day it's SVU and Elementary, the next it's documentaries and primary sources. I love variety.

Chances are, our tastes will overlap somewhere. And who cares if they don't? I can learn a lot about new music and stuff from other people.

I will go to any wedding, anywhere, at any time. I love weddings.

I've often said that I can go anywhere and do anything if the company is good. Don't underestimate the value of good company.
The six things I could never do without
1) sports
2) football
3) memories of how awesome high school was
4) golfing
5) competitive eating
6) breakdance
7) making up fake lists
I spend a lot of time thinking about
FREUDE, man. life is all about finding that FREUDE.


how funny this joke is:

innuendo: (n) Italian suppository

also, this:
On a typical Friday night I am
one of these is a lie:

- food and booze with pals
- at the 61c Cafe, writing
- at the In Bed Before Ten Dance Party at Spirit (even though I don't dance - I'm complicated!)
- something I don't normally do (which I do as often as possible)
- taking my clothes off for money
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I wake up in the morning I look like a werewolf halfway through his transformation.
You should message me if
What's most important to me is that you REALLY LOVE something. I don't care what it is (necessarily), but you should LOVE IT. I like people who care about things. Drifting through life without clinging to anything? That's no way to live.

I'm actually interested in an actual adult relationship with another adult. This means I'm not interested in polyamory, sure, but it also means I'm not really looking to involving myself in your open marriage. I'm completely in favor of those arrangements for consenting adults who find them fulfilling. Me? Not so much.