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My self-summary
Hey there. My Name is Matt. And I'm just a guy looking for love in this big world. I would describe myself as a down to earth guy who has good values and someone who's passionate about their interest and what they believe in. My hope is to find a woman who will love all of what I am, and who will be willing to share themself with me, and who will share all sorts of experiences with me. The kind of woman who will be not only a lover but a best friend too. I like the kind of woman who takes the time to send good morning texts and does other things of that nature.

One thing I'd like to say about myself is that I'm a geek. As you will see later in this profile, I mention that I'm a pretty big fan of comic books and video games. Also classic monster movies. The best way for me to describe how I feel about these things is for me to say that I follow news about them the same that a sports fan would follow news about their favorite teams. This especially true when it comes to comic books. I'm pretty good at knowing what Marvel and DC are up to with their characters, and what writers and artists are working on them. I'm the same way with movies too, and like watching the special features after the movie is over.

I have a lot to offer a girl. I'm a romantic, chivalrous, loyal guy with a lot of love to give. Hopefully this page shows that.
What I’m doing with my life
I work full time at Ability Beyond as a porter. I also used to work part time at Gamestop as a game advisor. I am of the mindset of working to live and not the other way around. Outside of that, i tend to do whatever. Sometimes, that might be popping in video game and sometimes it can mean opening up something to read or browsing around on the web. Sometimes, I go down to the city, Long Island, Westchester, or New Jersey. I'm constantly thinking about the future though. Lately, I've been trying to tap into my creative side and write ideas for stories, since I'd like to work in the comic book industry.
I’m really good at
I think I'm just good at being me. I'm a good listener, and I always try to listen closely and hear people out. I also very open and honest. I value communication in a big way, and try to put everything out in the open.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think just myself as a whole. I don't mean this is any way out of arrogance. I've always been someone who marches to my own beat, even in my own circles of friends, my level of interest in the things I like is very deep. Sometimes that makes it tough to relate people, because they might not be into the same things as me or as into them as I am. I still manage to get by though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
When it comes to entertainment, there's a ton of stuff I like. There is no way I'm gonna list all of it though, so here's a quick run down of things I enjoy

Movies: Action, horror, comedey, crime films, old movies, and superhero movies.

TV: Most TV is pretty forgettable to me. Occasionally, I'll find a good series to watch though.

Books: Horror, crime(especially noir), social commentary, philosphy, and I love comic books.

Video Games: I mostly play action oriented games. More and more though, I'm getting into role playing games though. I also like some survival horror games and fighting games. Anything with a good story and characters.

Music: The Red Hot Chili Peppers are and always will be my favorite band of all time. After them, comes Billy Joel, and various stuff from the 90's.

Food: Barbeque, pizza and some other Itlalian foods, Chinese, and Jewish deli pastrami sandwiches. Oh, and I do love me some seafood too.
Six things I could never do without
No way am I going to be able to limit it to 6. I'm passionate about alot of stuff right now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have an active mind, and it's in my nature to think about lots of things and be introspective and self reflective. I think about where I'm going in life, and things that I can do both big and small to help me get there. And I think about someday finding the woman that I'll settle down with. Of course, I spend time thinking about the things I'm interested in and passionate, especially with regards to comics and politics. The comic book industry and culture have taken a lot of turns, and I like to read about what each company is going to try next with their characters through various apps I have that give me that kind of news. The same goes for politics. More than ever, that world is hard to predict where it will go next, and I like to keep up in these complex times. As I think about all these things, I try to think about living a balanced life. Fun, free, but purposeful too.
On a typical Friday night I am
Don't really have a regimented plan for my Fridays or any other night of the week for that matter. I could be at my computer writing something or browsing the web. I could be playing a video game, reading, or watching a movie. Otherwise, I'm out with friends or chilling at their place. So the possibilities are really endless.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ok, I've never actually mentioned this before on here, but I'm so sick of having great conversations that get ruined by this, so I'll just mention it right here.

I'm more than a little embarrassed to mention this, but here goes: I don't drive. Here's the thing. I have what is called a processing disability. It makes my ability to figure things out and do quick thinking difficult at times, and in driving, you have to do a lot of quick thinking. It has absolutely nothing to do with being lazy. I have at several points in my life tried to learn, and I've just never felt completely comfortable doing it. Maybe someday, that will change, but for now, it is what it is. That said, I hope you're not scared off. I'm not naive. I know this can present challenges for dating, but please know that if you drive to me, I will absolutely help with gas, and food and any activities we do. I promise, I'll keep things fair. And I have no issue hopping on a train. I'm pretty good at figuring out where to take them, and I live right by the Brewster Metro north station.
You should message me if
Well, if you can look past my driving issue, then we should definitely talk. I don't like bragging, but I'm a good guy. A keeper for sure if you catch me. I will not be so arrogant as to say I'm like other guys, because I don't know them all. But one thing I can say is I'm here for the real deal. I'm not here to hook up, so I won't be messaging you for that. No, I want to find someone who I can enjoy being with and look forward to being around them or talking to them at the end of the day. Message me if you want a guy who'll be not only your partner, but your best friend and more.
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