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My self-summary
***Full Disclosure ***
MEN, you might entice other female to come over your home with your fine bottle of champagne or wine, but not ME😉! I've provided my last 2 exes with an intensive collection and I have quite a collection myself and probably beyond most of you. I just brought a Margaux and a Châteauneuf-du-Pape 1998 Magnun to a friend's small intimate white party gathering. Am I too humble? LOL
I'm looking for a Distinguished Gentleman. I know I look young and I'm flattered by the many 24 years-old look comments, but I have NO interest in boys nor hookup. Never have been. Only in long term relationship. I'm very particular who I chose to be with. My last 2 were very young, handsome, and fit executives who lives a very busy life, yet still make lots of time for me and is always in constant communication.
I know what works for me. Im not here to date for the sake of dating. I'm very comfortable enough to be alone. Please save yours and mine time and stop making my inbox FULL. 5000 is a lot to wipe out. My fingers are sore:(

***Don't lust for what you see, Desire what you know😃😊😉~H

Soy Smart, Sexy, Stupendous, Silly, Savvy, Sincere, Single, Significant, Soulful, Slender, Small, Spunky, Soft, Silky, Smooth, Succulent, Sweet, Saucy, Snuggly, Smitten, Sunny, Shiny, Star, Summer, Sun-kissed Skin, Sassy, Serious, Stunning, Stylish, Sophisticated, Sporty, Social, Straightforward, Sarcastic, Successful, Street Smart, Secure, Spontaneous, Spiritual, Saint, Scintillating, Sensual, Sinful, Stimulating, Seductive, Suspenseful, Satisfying, Schoolgirl, Safe, Sane, Self-Confident, Stern, Stable, Survivor, Strong, Solid, Structure, Solar, Supportive, Season, Special, Simply Sweet and Spicy with a cute Sensational, Sparkling personality. I am Passionate about many things, and mostly to those I care about. My ideal mate is a person that Supports me, has Shares in our ups and downs, enduring the bumps along the way, has Sense of reason...action, Stimulate my mind, my body;) who's also Sensual, Sexy;) Who doesn't give up and knows how (fill in the blank)....!!! Knows how to Prioritize what's Important. I am looking for somebody that's Honest, look out for my best interest, that makes me want to be a better person, can and willing to tell me when I am wrong with gentleness;) Someone that can help me grow as we grow in the process. I want this ever forming relationship where its constant growth and admiration for one another. What intrigues me is your Character, Charisma, Chivalry, Creativity, Curiosity, Courage, Contribution, take Challenges, Personality, Passion for life, you're Pleasant, Present, Proud, Patient, Persistent, Playful spirit, Perception-how you view people, the world and not let the craziness cloud it, you're a person who's willing to Strive and Believe in Hope. A conservative, but I'd also like it if you're a bit rough around the edges...High-Velocity Fun!!! ;) I'm waiting for a guy who can challenge me Intellectually, Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually....To be my best friend and the best Companion. Not only do you Compliment me, but you are a great complement to me as well. I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect, but who's perfect to me. I don't want or need someone to complete me, but want someone that Accepts me Completely. My Endearing Soul-Mate...My Sun and Star, My Ying and Yang! Who can share and talk about anything, anywhere! Even in high-frequency...GOL I am not looking for convenience, but for that unconventional Love! Making real friendship to start and see where things blossom..and hopefully developing an organic relationship and celebrating a blissful life.

~Toujours Pour Toujours
What I’m doing with my life
I'm constantly learning and striving to be better. Whether within myself, what I'm doing, a skill, a masterpiece, cooking, sewing, knitting, fencing, rock-climbing techniques, archery, shooting, field hockey, golfing, gardening, climbing up the roof for a repair in pink thong...and no, Not so fast with that imagination of yours with Hanky Panky thong, but the spa kind...LOL I love house projects (my mind is always running with ideas, therefore; no time for dating), implementing ideas, being a better aunt, daughter, sister, cousin, neighbor, a friend. I feel and believe learning is an everyday process. So, having a balance is very good. Hence, I'm finally doing this thing that everyone is talking about, this new medium, "Online dating" ...hehehe, and simply celebrating life.
I’m really good at
Loving with all my Heart and it Shows in my Actions because I am a very Passionate person...Remembering-I'm told I have a memory of an elephant. Ability to make those around me Laugh. Listening...Being Truthful- the Truth hurts, but I strive for Honesty, thats just the least to start, yet most peek-a-boo!
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told my Bright Smile. "It lights up the whole room", "My Aura, my Eyes, my other A$$et" (All by my friends: both men and women and the Exs...guess it says something? Hehe:), I have a very outgoing inclusive personality. Positive energy, I'm very Happy with a genuine and Happy Go Lucky attitude towards life and others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books by Paulo Coelho, Tami Hoag, Amy Tang, Audrey Niffenegger, Cormac McCarthy, Andrew X. Pham, Sun Tzu, Eckhart Tolle, Chapman& Thomas, His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Frances Mayes, Don Gabor, Karen Blumenthal, Mitch Albom, Dan Brown, Tim Sanders, John C. Maxwell, and the list goes on with Business Weeks, Wine Enthusiats, Wine Spectator, Fortune Magazine, San Francisco, San Jose Magazine.

I'm a foodie. So, I love to explore new and revisit old faves... too many and can't deny like Sushi Ran fresh sashimi/sushi-Hamachi, Blu fin, Toro, Uni, Spanish Mackerel are just a few to mention. A lot of Asian-fusion fares, Roka Akor(Chicago & SF I've tried) State Bird Provisions, Californian-American( Gary Danko, Luce, Spruce, Alexander Steakhouse (Cupertino, over SF) Manresa, Scallops at Forbes Mills in Los Gatos..yum! Perfection with sauce, too. Plenty more over a meal conversation;)), French-Masa(so miss) La Foie, Benu, Marche Moderne, Greek-Evvia, Kokkari, Italian(Prime•Italian-Artdeco, Arrivederci:AZ & SD). Music has been my boyfriend and I've pretty much seen all of them live:) Love house, progressive-house, pretty much anything with a great Kaskade, Tiesto, ATB, Sasha & John Digweed, Calvin Harris, Goodwill & Hook N Sling, Eric Prydz, Eric Morrill, Mark Schultz, Martin Solveig, Alexandra Stan, Nadia Ali, Sia, AfroJack, Gabriel & Dresden, Hardwell & R3hab, Swedish House Mafia, electronic w/some vocal, Sigur Ros, Thievery Corporation, Bond, Andrea Bocelli, Leonard Cohen, Chris Botti, Boston, 80s, Eurythmics, OMD, New Orders, Erasures, Devo, Thompson Twins, Jazz, Priscilla Ahn, Adele, Joss Stone, Meiko, John Legend, Jason Mraz, Jack Johnson, Fiest, Sheryl Crow, Shania Twain, Dido, Cranberries, Mazzy Stars, Gotye,Thom Yorke, Radiohead, Linkin Park, Pink Floyd, Flock of Seagulls, Coldplay, One Republic, U2, Nevermore, Foo Fighters, Nickleback, Eva Simmons, Madonna, Alicia Keys, Etta James, Sade, Diana Krall, Elvis Costello, Gipsy King, Bebel Gilberto, Bossa Nova, Meiko Kaji, and my list continues when I have that Entire Book, not chapter. Movies: Casablanca, From Here To Eternity, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, The GrandMaster, Slumdog Millionaire, Talented Mr. Ripley, The Wolf of Wall Street, The Departed( original and American version) True Romance, Godfather, Scarface, Heat, Scent of a Woman, Silver Linings Playbook, Good Will Hunting, The Fight Club, Snatch, Django, Life of Pi, Lincoln, Olympus Has Fallen, 007 movies, 300, Married with Children, Revenge of the Nerds, Revenge, Lie to Me, House, Sorprano, Game of Thrones, Something About Mary, Serendipity, The Count of Monte Cristo, The Holiday, The NoteBook, Love Actually are a few to list. Seen pretty much all Cirque Du Soleil and concerts ones, too, from SF, SJ, Vegas, Chicago, Florida, NY Miss Saigon, Phantom of the Opera, Mama Mia, The Jersey Boys, Wicked, The Lion King, Beauty and the Beast are some Broadway shows I love. Love to go London for next Broadway show;)
Six things I could never do without
*Determination in myself

*Being that I out last the energizer bunny, I must have H2O and young green coconut so the electrolytes can hydrates me:)

*Daily doses of Love to get my creative juice flowing:)

*Spirit of playfulness that is vital to a loving relationship

*Long Passionate Kisses that never end

*Zen: Proper belly laugh at least once a day (I have to get my core exercise somehow...Lol)

*Courage, I’m a person that always stretching and challenging myself to be a better person. So, I value meaningful open connections.

*'s the key element to a healthy relationship, releases any assumptions that undermine love and drama in our relationship:)

********I much prefer 8, over 6;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life. What is the purpose of life. Is life predetermine or are you a life form...ants scattered around the earth. Do you control your own destiny..? Where did the void come from? There's an empty box. Inside the box, the space already exist, so where did space come from? Being aware of the path I'm on. Creating the power of now. How little things can make a big difference. The surprising truth about what motivates us.
The gifts of imperfection. Appreciating what I have. Those that are close to me, Appreciating them. Who are my "True friends (during the bad times), my Rock," who deserve my gratitude, Goals-completed ones and uncompleted list. What I have build and accomplished on my own and through my triumph and tribulations. My most Loving, Handsome Pooch and how he came to into my life. He's my Pride and Joy:) Next travel destinations. I view life as a fantastic journey to your soul. Embrace;)
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm either at a wine event if I have a dogsitter, HH followed by dinner and a movie with a friend/friends, dinner parties (I love to throw a good dinner entertainment), concert, comedy shows, being immersed into something I enjoy doing that can last the whole weekend, long weekend trips, or as Spontaneously as getting on the road@ 5am after some fun HH time with friends and heading to Tahoe and enjoy fresh powder(winter) or beautiful hike in the spring/summer to Yosemite, Tahoe, Movaje Desert, or whichever direction my car wants to steer to. Or racing home to give Love and getting Love from my most handsome pooch who accepts me Completely:) So, really there isn't a typical Friday for me;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hmmmm....Ergo, it's "Private," but if you understand Calvin Harris: "Sweet Nothing," then I have some faith. But, if you're someone who wants to get in my knickers...Then it's hard for me to Love when you're giving me such sweet nutt'n.

Therefore, My Ce....... Streaks Continues:)
You should message me if
Only you are single, actually read what I'm about, have integrity, being honest, loyal, have a positive outlook about life and is spiritual, spontaneous, live generously, have an impact towards me, yourself, the community, who's patient, yet persistent, love to smile and laugh, seek new adventures, Seek perpectual self-improvement, disdain drama, like these activities: rock climbing, shooting, music, concerts, wake-boarding, snowboarding, snowmobile, jet-skiing, meditation, hiking, dancing, comedy, shopping, wine and dine, nice scenic drives, traveling, exploring, enjoys cooking, enjoys dinner entertainment, enjoys trying new things and like to be challenged and challenge yourself in the process, grounded, have a pretty good head on your shoulders, determine, strives, passion towards life, things you love and desire. Enjoys relaxing- things like a simple walk on the beach, rolling in the sand, dancing in the rain, and serious in making real friendship to start and see where things blossom..and hopefully develop an organic relationship.
The two of us