54Morgantown, United States
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My self-summary
I have no idea how to make myself any clearer on this. If you are religious and think that you can't live without your god, please don't waste your time. It isn't going to work with me.

If you are very religious, we will NOT make a good match. PLEASE READ MY PROFILE! Don't waste mine or your time.

Please don't judge me by my pictures. I might just be the most unphotogenic person alive!

I am 50, educated, intelligent, open to new experiences and new people. I hate games and am honestly not very good at social games....I don't play games very well. If I like something, I'll say so, and if I don't, I'll say that, too. In other words, I'm pretty blunt, tactless, but very open.

I like to have fun. I love music and love to go to concerts and see live music. I have a lot of friends, which I think says something, but no significant other...I seem to be pretty picky in that department.

I believe if you quit learning, you die.

Be aware, however, that at some point, I WILL say or do something that will offend you. Not on purpose, mind you, but that's just the way it is....note above, I have no tact and pretty much say what comes into my mind, even though I tell clients all the time they can't do that.

I love to travel. I love to cook. I don't camp...ever. Hiking is ok, but sleeping with the bugs and dirt is not. I guess you can say I'm not a typical West Virginia girl. I'm probably pretty much not a typical

I'm pretty much an open book. If you want to know something, ask.

So I thought I'd add another thing...I have a list. Yes, a list. Here goes:

--he is educated
--he is intelligent
--he is not a felon
--he is funny
--he has a job
--he doesn't have small children
--he doesn't have drama from an ex-wife or significant other
--he is not a bigot in any way
--he is preferably not religious, or at the very least does not regard faith as the center of everything
--has a basic understanding of science and logic
--is loyal and faithful
--isn't afraid to try new things
--is comfortable in different situations and social groups

I also have some things that are going to be complete dealbreakers. If you:

--are very religious, that is a dealbreaker.
--think that homosexuality is a "sin', that is a dealbreaker.
--think that anything is a "sin," that is a dealbreaker.
--if you think that abortion is always unacceptable, that is a dealbreaker.
--if you think that politics doesn't bear discussing because it's boring, that is a dealbreaker.
--if you think that intellectual discussions are boring, that is a dealbreaker.

Does that sound like a lot? It might be...and it goes a long way if you can make me laugh....
What I’m doing with my life
I work with deaf students at the local university. I enjoy the job, but I'm wondering what comes next?

Learning, learning. Forever learning.

I'm also recovering from a serious accident in December. I broke both arms and am still having a problem with my right hand, hence the brace in the profile picture. I'm working at getting well and being back to normal.
I’m really good at
teaching, learning new things and being a good and honest person.

As I mentioned previously, I am an excellent cook, and if you're a good boy, I may cook for you some day.
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile and personality and the fact that most people say I look at least 10 years younger than I am.

I am outgoing, but I am usually just as happy sitting aat home in front of the tv. In fact, that is sometimes what I prefer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I wouldn't even attempt to answer this question here--way too many to list.. A brief beginning on this is all Stephen King, Anne Rice before the religious conversion, Laurell K. Hamilton, Dan Brown, and many, many more. Yes, I love to read... Movies: Rocky Horror Picture Show, To Sir With Love, Guess Who's Coming to Dinner, The Wizard Of Oz, The Devil's Rejects, Saw, a very long and eclectic list!. TV Shows: House, Bones, Supernatural, True Blood, Numb3rs, Ghost Whisperer, Travel Channel, Food Network. Music: I admit it--I'm a metal head at heart, but I love all music from metal to big band, to jazz, blues, hip hop--all except country! As far as food goes, I love all types of food. I haven't tried any ethnic food that I dislike and am open to trying anything once! I love Indian food, Italian, Mexican...
Six things I could never do without
books, my daughter, hmmm...I'm not sure I can come up with six things here...
Here we go...
Good beer
Good wine
my daughter
I can't really come up with odd is that?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the future, my career choices, and where I go from here. I also think about the world in general. Why people believe weird, superstitious things, like flying spaghetti monsters, plagues my mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
working, sitting at home, or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that I am a nerd... (and if it's private, do I really want to admit it publicly?)
You should message me if
you like nerds, you are intelligent, hard working and like to have fun.

I would ideally like to have someone college educated, who is as at home in a dive bar as they are in the country club...someone that can fit into many social situations. You should also be settled but spontaneous. I want to be able to travel with someone and to stay home and have fun, too. I can't stand superficial people...I just read some guy's profile and he said he wouldn't date someone who was even a little overweight...and he was himself. I want someone who isn't a hypocrite, someone who says what he means and lives by it. I'm really easy to get along with! Just message me and we'll see where it goes.
The two of us