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My self-summary
Please beware everyone, for this site is full of scammers. General rule: If it seems too good to be true, it almost certainly is. Tell your friends: this site is full of scammers trying to steal your identity.

Self-summaries are for narcissists. Another General rule: the length of a self-summary varies directly with the self-centeredness of the writer. I should like to avoid that.

I did the Summer of Heat Quiz; Apparently I need to go to Berkeley, CA, Cambridge, MA or Victoria, BC, and I should stay the hell away from Oklahoma City, Las Vegas, NV or San Antonio, TX .

For what it's worth, I am sick to death of reading profiles where people say they are looking for someone who "doesn't play games." For those people, I've got news for you: everything that involves risk and reward, cooperation or conflict, between and among rational decision makers is, by definition, a game. Look up von Neumann and Morganstern sometime. If you're not "into games" then you're not into living. That, or you're playing a game yourself which, if you're alive, you are.
What I’m doing with my life
If you really want to know then by all means knock yourself out. I do all manner of things with my life, and it really depends on how you understand "life". If you mean "What am I paid to do" then it's subjecting myself to all sorts of derision and disrespect from Generation Me: You guessed it, I work in a classroom. Other than that I think too much.
I’m really good at
My signature talent themes are Intellection, Deliberative, Ideation, Learner and Input. Makes me a well-suited for an academic career.
The first things people usually notice about me
Most people at work refer to me as "the guy with the hair". I cut it off for personal reasons a year ago, and am growing it back.
I've also been told if I were a book I'd be an encyclopedia. If someone starts talking to me about a subject it's like cranking a fire hose. I can't seem to change that, so I might as well embrace it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Words, pictures, programs, tunes, meals--
I wonder how much it really matters. What one prefers does not determine what another finds appealing, does it? You tell me...
Hey, Dja ever read The Dispossessed? Yeah, I'm kind of like that.
How about anything by Sherman Alexie? No?
Hey, Suyape. What're you doin' here? And when are you leaving?
Six things I could never do without
Excess breeds corruption. I can do without a lot of things, and I am hard-pressed to consider those things I deem the sine qua non of my existence.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the heck am I doing here. I keep coming back, and I probably shouldn't. Even OKC says I probably shouldn't be using this site 'cos apparently I've turned into a Manchild! Eli ha chi ndaholewan oxkwewak, ha?

Upon further, more earnest consideration, I've become a Backrubber. Y'know, that guy you know who can't stop thinking about how great it would be to nudge you awake in the morning but can't muster the courage to ask you out? Yeah, that sounds more like me.
On a typical Friday night I am
After my experience here, after the Catfish and the Scammers wanting money, wanting a sugar daddy, wanting to possess another person, it's a real challenge not to be bitter. I had an acquaintance point out my profile had gotten grumpy, and I generally am not. Really I'm not. So... On a typical Friday night I'm either stargazing, doing music or feeding the Monster upstairs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a hard time saying "no", and it gives me great difficulties. I am in a long-term open-relationship with JustReal49. I guess it's long-term, anyway; I don't know. She knows I am polyerotic and has known since we first met. I was actually the one who encouraged her to join this site, though she has since deleted her account.
You should message me if
If there be anything here you find intriguing. Please don't curl your face up like that; the previous statement is in the subjunctive mood.
The two of us