43Port-of-Spain, Trinidad and Tobago
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My self-summary
Thoughtful, I can empathize with people's situations and am ever the optimist even when the skies are grey, believe me, I'll find that silver lining for you! Lighthearted; I'll give you a smile faster than anything else lol (see? Look, there you go!) Personable and more than 75% honest lol
*OKC wants me to expand my profile to a thousand words to 'complete' it so, Challenge: Accepted! lol I also tend to lean towards having a bit of a darkly sarcastic wit...As for my being honest; I prefer to be honest and enjoy a good night's sleep than be otherwise and insomniac! lol

**Less is more; summary is that I'm really a mellow kind of guy.
What I’m doing with my life
Balancing life -which is VERY interesting and exciting for me right now- my work, that I am extremely enthusiastic about and studies...sigh, this is where the drama starts, because it is quite challenging. All at the same time trying to live in the moment while using the experiences of the past as a guide to the future ;-)
*OKC profile addendum: I'm currently also focusing on self-development; mainly because the person most interested in seeing me be the best person I can be is....wait for! lol It's also very interesting to me that by meeting new people and sharing experiences, you tend to find out more about yourself than anything else! Fascinating! lol

**In other words, I'm taking every day as it comes.
I’m really good at
Making people feel at ease -so I've been told lol- working out a win/win outcome from difficult situations. I'm a total "people person" and prefer face-to-face interaction and social situations. If you need something, let me know, I'll find someone who knows someone lol hey, if we have the technology, let's use it right? ;-)
*OKC add-mark lol...I'm a total team player (although I do prefer to work alone) because once you're a part of a team it's the goal that's important, not the individuals who help make it happen. I'm a motivator, in the background urging people to realize their best potential.

**To wit, I see sunshine in rainstorms :-)

***Ooo! I am also Fluent in Sarcasm! ;p
The first things people usually notice about me
The smile, a mischievous twinkle in the eye that says "If you ask me I maybe, MAYBE just might!" lol and (for some strange reason) my eyebrows! (no, no unibrow and not bushy either; I just don't get it lol)
*I asked some friends recently this question and their answer was that ever since I've been on vacation, I've groomed my work-style five-o'clock shadow into a full Leonidas-type beard that's fun to stroke in my best contemplative pose lol
*Back at work, I've reconnected to The Matrix so -sigh- the beard has retreated to it's former, non-threatening shadow of it's full potential :-(
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most Sci-Fi/Fantasy books by Larry Niven, Frank Herbert, Terry Pratchett, Brian Aldiss and any other good ones in the genre.
Movies: I watch anything with a good plot (but I have a soft spot for Sci-Fi/Fantasy and Horror).
Music: mostly Hip-Hop and a bit of everything else
Food: once it goes down and stays down, it's all good! lol
*I'll be a bit more specific here then: The Ringworld books by L. Niven, The Dune series by F. Herbert, The Helliconia Trilogy by B. Aldiss.
The Godfather, Matrix and Lord of the Rings Trilogies, Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Snatch, Inception, Dogma, Transformers, Afro Samurai.
How about most 80's and 90's music? KRS-ONE, 2Pac, M.O.P., Nas, THIS list is endless...
Six things I could never do without
Um...air (gasp, choke, wheeze, hack, cough, cough...ya feel me?)
water, food (thirsty and hungry just WILL NOT DO!) clothing, (ehh I'll stick with it just to avoid the screaming masses...who protest my scaring the kids lmaoooo) shelter and my positive attitude and belief in the Almighty

*...ok, o-KAY! I'll update already! ...add music to this and we're good! ;p
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything in general and nothing in particular let me expand on this a bit; I'm not a worrier, if something is to be done, I do it; if it's outside my sphere of influence, I don't think about it until I can do something about it. I learned a long time ago just how energy-consuming worrying about things is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either having a couple frosty ones with friends or home is very mentally-challenging so a chance to socialize and shoot the breeze with your colleagues or just veg out in front the tube *and the net* and detox for a couple of hours does wonders to kickstart a weekend!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit that if you ask me, I'll answer
You should message me if
You want to! lol

Honestly, I'm a person who likes meeting people, talking, doing fun stuff and generally opening myself up to new experiences. Life is so short and there are so many people with so many amazing experiences, why not meet as many as you can and share what you've learned on your own personal journey with them as well?

So, if you're amazing (even if you think you aren't, YOU ARE! or you just want to share experiences) you're already here, say hi! :-)
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