37Surabaya, Indonesia
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My self-summary
While you visit my profile, please kindly read it first before you decide to send me a message. Don't just view the photo and skip reading it. I find a man who love reading as smart and sexy. I think profile are made to describe what one wants from a partner, and to avoid having uncomfortable discussion later.

First, I have no intention of moving the chat to other media, e.g: WhatsApp, KIK, Viber, Skype, etc. I hate adding people to my list only to remove or block them later. I'd like to get to know you better before sharing my personal contact with you. I need to trust you and be friends with you first before giving you my number. You won't believe what people can do to you once they get your contact...stay friend with me here for a while, and I will share it willingly. I just need some time to trust you first.

The second thing is...I like visiting people's profile and leave random messages for them. So if I happen to write one for you, don't quickly assume I am interested to you. Maybe I just want you to know that I like your photos, or tell you how handsome you look, or curious about one of the lines on your profiles...this maybe is a dating site, but we can have some friends using this means too...if you don't like my message, simply ignore it or tell me that you don't like it. No need to reply harshly.

Another thing is...please do not ask me about things that has been stated on the profiles. I find it stupid to ask things like "where are you from?", "Are you single?" (DUH!! I won't even be here if I am not single!). Profiles are also made to avoid having FAQs asked again and again and again...

Please don't short everything when you don't want me to answer your message using all abbreviation. While "HRU?" is one of the most common things to abbreviate, remember that some people out there may not know what you are talking about.

Last but not least, I am only up for clean decent chat. If you are looking for someone to discuss about your sexual needs/dreams/problems, don't even bother to contact me.

I am sorry if I am being very particular about this, but let's just say that I finally know what I want here.

I am just a simple, kind, caring and happy go lucky girl in real life. I think I am more direct when I talk online, this is just a way to protect myself from being exposed to the dangerous online scammers and perverts.

On the negative side...I am kinda slow in taking decision, lazy when it come to sport! Hahaha!

I am a shy girl. When it comes to new relationship/friendship, I tend to observe other first and think before I do something that may result in unpleasant thing between us all.

People might see it as if I am slow, and maybe I am taking things slow and let it's better to have a slow well maintained and well developed love that will end in a fiery love rather than fiery romance that will slowly wilted away...

I am not here to play games, I am here to look for a potential future husband. *grin*
What I’m doing with my life
Currently in between projects. I am a freelancer writer, I do social media listening report for some clients. I make vegan kimchi and cooking when there is some order...and I make pretty handmade jewelry. I also fix broken jewelry.

I do beading and cooking as hobbies, I like reading few pages of a good novel or some words in the dictionary before sleeping...needless to say...all my books are not in their best shape hahaha...
I’m really good at
Comforting the uneasy people,
talking crap
cooking whatever ingredients I have in the fridge and getting better at baking too
singing in the bathroom or SMULE
reading people's face
Detecting online scammers
The first things people usually notice about me
I am a big girl with a big smile!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Any comedy, mystery, thriller/suspence and not too much on the drama side.

I used to be an addict of telenovelas and dorama, but now found out that I do not have the patience to sit there and watch the whole series. With exception of Game of Thrones

Love jazz and RnB or anything that are easy-listening like lounge music etc. No heavy metal or rap please. One of my pet peeves is that I can't understand the lyric coz they sing too fast and it really irritates me...hahaha...

Anything spicy and tasty for food. Recently transition to plant-based I do not eat any animal products now. I love Indonesian, Indian and Japanese food, pizza, pasta or any gassy Mexican food...yum! I love veggies, but I hate cucumber...unless they are pickled.
Six things I could never do without
Air, family, toothbrush, friends, health, ...mmm...that's all I can think about right now...let me think about the last one!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why the character who are in love, especially Japanese dorama, often seen running around? either towards each other or together to get away from other?

I think I will be slightly slimmer if I date Japanese man? coz every time we'll date, he probably will grab my hand and asked me to run together somewhere...with a secluded place...a dark alley...where a hidden sushi restaurant exist...hahahaha.
On a typical Friday night I am
watching movies, hanging out with friends, trying out new recipes and inviting my friends to taste it, reading my books and learning spanish through audio book....making jewelry! (I LOVE BEADING) I know....I know...need to get out more!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sometimes visit others' profiles just to report those with inappropriate pictures.
You should message me if
- you are not pushy
- you like what you read,
- you are looking for friendship, love or activity partner...
- you are a decent guy with good sense of humor
- you are not a pervert!
- you do not mind that I take things slowly, this may involve me not sharing my personal contact details until i trust you enough!
- you want to be my karaoke partner on Smule! (Please add me here -
The two of us