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My self-summary
I am trying to live life bravely, adventurously, creatively and laugh as much as possible without being hedonistic. I just read a term on FB referencing what can happen to our over indulged, entitled children.."hedonic adaptation"... Yeah, don't want to catch that😱

I like the way Voltaire puts it in Candide.
"I should like to know what is worse: to be ravished a hundred times by pirates, and have a buttock cut off, run the gauntlet of the Bulgarians and be flogged and hanged in an auto-dafe, to be dissected and have to row in a galley…in short, to undergo all the miseries we each of us have suffered…or simply to sit here and do nothing?"
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a self employed professional, yoga, spinning, biking, swimming, movies, reading, kayaking, attempting to be creative w/o self judgement.
I’m really good at
Talking, listening, being analytical, self reflecting, getting goofy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm friendly. I smile and laugh easily. I'm interested in listening to what people have to say. I am nonjudgemental. I am unconventional, liberal.
I can be a wisecracker. Some say I have an irreverent sense of humor at a nice way...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Nora Ephron, David Sedaris, Rebecca Solnit, Henry James, Margaret Atwood,
Pans Labyrinth, Justified.
Any music that I hear and like.
Indian, Mexican, Italian etc. etc. etc.
Six things I could never do without
"All you need is love"
Call me corny, but that's just how I feel...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I should really start meditating so I can stop spending a lot of time thinking about unnecessary things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately I have been going to the Detroit Film Theater. I did this a lot in college and got out of the habit while raising my children.
One of my sons is into karaoke and I occasionally join him.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Self reflection and taking accountability are aphrodisiacs... In my opinion😱
You should message me if
You also find the above Voltaire quote both amusing and true.
The two of us