45 Chesterton, United States
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My self-summary
Just plugging along til I win that darned lottery. ;) I probably should play......

I played! I played! If I'm off of this site tomorrow it's because I won and I'm just giving up and hiring a cabana boy to serve me drinks in sunny Mexico.

I'm an optimistic person that sees the glass as not half empty or half full, but with lots more room for more tasty beverage. Now if I could just remember where I put my glass.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a mom of 3. I'm also the President of a Non Profit that I started in 2008. Merry Meals... look us up. 'Tis my busy season!!
Full time- I work at a grain elevator. I'm a blue collar girl. High vis, Redwings, the whole thing.
I’m really good at
Cooking. I love grilling and smoking stuff like brisket and pork shoulder.
Finding humor in situations... even things that maybe shouldn't be laughed at? haha I can't help it.
Organizing fundraisers.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. I've also been told my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I wish I had time to read. I used to be an avid reader. Not a lot of time for movies, either. I have to really want to see a movie to take 2 hours out of my day for one. I can be bribed with popcorn, however.

I like pretty much all music. Lately I have been stuck in the 70's. Or Toto's "Hold the Line." <--- Earworm. No rap. Oh wait, the question was what kind of MUSIC did I like....
Ed Sheeran! Yep, I said it.
Older country, some new stuff too. I have an extra ticket to see Alabama next month!!! ;)

Food? I'm always low carbing, so basically I'm a carnivore. NO seafood. Yuck.
The six things I could never do without
Wine... lol.... Ok, maybe I could do without it if I HAD to. Who am I kidding. No.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What "In a box" means and why do so many men have that included in their profile name. What does it mean?

I always wonder if I made a right decision. Nothing feels better than looking back and being happy that I went with my gut and it all turned out ok.

Also, I get asked a lot why I'm still single. I used to think about that too. But then a friend told me....
When someone asks you, "Why are you single? You're attractive, funny, intelligent and creative," you're response should be, "I'm overqualified."
ahahahaaaaaa! I thought this was hysterical.
On a typical Friday night I am
No Friday is typical for me... Do I have my kids? Then I'm hanging out with them. Otherwise I am spending time with my friends. We like trying new restaurants, seeing live music or playing Cards Against Humanity. So fun!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can respect a guy that cries. However, if you cry more than me (and I don't cry often), I'm going to make fun of you. Just so you know...

That's probably not the most private thing either.... save that for when I know you better. I think most of us think this question is a little ridiculous, right?
You should message me if
You are looking for a relationship. You are single. Which means you are not married. You are FUNNY. I am happiest when I'm laughing! Who isn't?

Also, please live relatively close. I am a busy girl so trying to date someone that lives an hour away is impossible for me.

Additionally, if you have no pictures up, I won't respond. In my experience, this means you are hiding something.

If you have no shirt on in one of your pics? I'm passing you by. I just find it uncomfortable.

Good luck to everyone! I'm starting to wonder if this site really works. :)