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My self-summary
I like Goth but I'm not. I like to write and want to be a full time writer. I'm oddly into photography considering that I am visually impared and use a white cane to get around. I have a History degree but I work in computers. The history firms weren't hiring at the time.

I work for a huge international company because hell, I gotta pay the bills. I think Charlotte, NC is too straight laced and I'm always looking for stuff underground. Music is my soul.

I like to go out and escape and explore and create. I am full of contradictions and I don't lose sleep over it.

I am artistic, intellectual, and chic
What I’m doing with my life
Writing, drum circles, [[wine bars, working in [[IT, updating my wardrobe, going to concerts and art [[galleries and [[antique stores. I'm a published poet and [[photograher but I find myself not really a part of that crowd. I have too many interests and it is annoying at times.
I’m really good at
Project management, writing, using my cane, making people laugh, helping women shop, debating, critiquing movies/discs. I'm not good at spelling, but that's what computers are for.
The first things people usually notice about me
Natural blonde hair and brillant blue eyes - that look in different directions. Cross-eyed as hell. I might or might not have a white cane with me and I look a lot younger than I really am. And of coures, I'm a smartass - which some claim is visible from a distance before they even get a chance to talk to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Corrections, William Gibson, Chuck Palahaniunk, George Orwell, Neal Stephenson, Connie Willis, Ambrose

Movies, Blue Velvet, Undertow, Fight Club, [[12 Monkeys and other indie stuff

Music, too many to mention and it changes all of the time, Red House Painters, Snow Patrol, Elliott Smith, Nine Inch Nails, Wilco, Emmylou Harris, Celldweller

Food, Any good bottle of wine and a nice filet of tuna
Six things I could never do without
Computers, music, blogs, silk clothing, my farking job, and my 70's orange leather jacket
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex, god, politics, symbolism, philosophy; what makes a good movie/book plot, what music I like, if this shirt makes me look fat [it does - ed].
On a typical Friday night I am
I might be out dancing or at a hardcore show. Regardless, I'm drinking an expensive glass of wine out of a plastic cup. Then again I might be at home writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
As someone who is visually impared, I see with my hands. Most people don't understand that even though I can still read, I have to use a cane to get around at night. This has led to a lot of confusion. Such as the time I got slapped for the offense of "faking being blind." Halloween parties are really odd. Most people think the cane is a part of the costume. Concerts are fun too, A Perfect Circle hit me the head with a water bottle that I didn't see coming.
You should message me if
You're not lame, you read books, you know who David Lynch is and you're open minded. Religious people probably shouldn't bother, if you even got this far.
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