42Fremont, United States
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My self-summary
I am more of a talker than a writer, but here goes.
I am polyamorous, happily married to sweetnpetite100. I am newish to the area and find lots to be excited about, the excitement is damped by having to leave behind some great friends and relationships.

I am curious, sarcastic and irreverent. I always follow the rules unless I don't like them. My politics don't have a place on the spectrum. I like to make my opinions know but respect contrary points of view. I don't have a "type" and love variety.

I like to be active, though I am often not as active as I should be. Hiking, climbing, geocaching and mountain biking are all on my list of things to do now that I am in California.

I am looking to make new friends, friends with benefits, and other connections. I am also trying to find other polyamorous couples for me and my wife to connect with.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to settle in to my new home. Learning where all the highways lead too. Finding new friends. Tying to figure out what a "burner" is.
I’m really good at
Convincing people to do the things they didn't know they wanted to do.
Surprising people, (It seems my "look" doesn't match my personality.
Fixing things using the wrong tools.
Driving in snow.
Laughing at myself.


Apparently I need to add "irritating uptight people" to this list.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, I think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books are any by Ben Elton, Carl Hiaasen and Elmore Leonard. If I had to pick an absolute favorite it would be a tie between Blind Faith and Past Mortem by Ben Elton. Also like Poe and am a Sherlock Holmes fan.

Favorite shows are Shameless (the original British version), and Outrageous Fortune.

It is hard to pick a favorite food, I like a whole variety of foods.

Music: AC/DC, Aerosmith, White Snake, Def Leppard, CCR, Lynyrd Skynyrd etc.
Six things I could never do without
My dog

This list is not in any particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I sometimes think that I should try and meet up with someone who shares a really high enemy percentage with me. I am curious to see how things would go.
On a typical Friday night I am
Not sure having just moved a long distance, i will have to redefine typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am Canadian!! Shhh don't tell anyone.
You should message me if
You are an intelligent and confident woman, if you aren't confident you're not going to like me much. You must be ok with polyamory.

You want to be hypnotized.

You know where the good wine bars are.

You want to go hiking or geocaching.

You are patient enough to teach me Spanish

You want to learn to speak Canadian.
The two of us