51 Royan, France
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My self-summary
Message me if you enjoy running or surfing, talking from the heart, cuddling, if you don't drink or smoke, and if you're OK with living in France for the next 5 years.

I'm learning how to make myself happier, if you're on the same path maybe we could help each other?

I love surfing, running barefoot, roller blading and snowboarding, sightseeing on a bicycle, climbing trees, hiking, jumping on a trampoline, swimming, diving, doing handstands and skipping rope and gymnastics, flowing motorcycle rides. Just being active in general. I'm also interested in astronomy and biology, health, psychology and sociology, permaculture, intentional communities.

I eat and live healthy (lots of homemade raw red sauerkraut), I'm looking for a woman who's similarly energetic and lively. I usually spend the w-ends with my teenage son, I'm free the rest of the time.

Even if we're far away I'd enjoy having voice or video conversations with you, because exchanging ideas and sharing experiences and points of view is so important for me, it helps me figure out what I want to do and how to go about it.
What I’m doing with my life
Finding and understanding and healing my childhood trauma so I can finally live free and happy. Figuring out what to do in the coming years, where to go, with whom. I do some software development (, I've started a podcast ( to bring to French speakers the work of people such as Marshall Rosenberg (Nonviolent Communication), Nathaniel Branden (self-esteem), and others. After working as an independent software developer for many years I'm thinking of switching to some sort of counseling.
I’m really good at
preparing simple healthy meals (low carb high fat paleo), having unusual points of view, living a peaceful life close to nature, giving massages to relax tense muscles and help heal injuries, always seeing the positive side, observing wildlife, playing with other kids like me no matter their age, throwing rocks, building and fixing things, feeling close to all living beings, improvising, planning, making more with less, climbing trees without damaging them, ...

I'm really bad at
being exactly on time, obeying arbitrary rules, fully understanding things the first time, doing things I don't feel like doing right now, not making any mistakes, meeting deadlines, throwing things out, knowing how long it will take me to finish some project ...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food podcast, since episode 126


hardfloor (melorec, the question remains, acperience...), der dritte raum (magnetic fields, m50, der schrittmacher... ), albion (twisted, nok su kow), capricorn (harakiri), hoshi (moonshine, the tribe...), microwave prince (colour of love, solar eclipse...), caterpillar (lost in 303), nostrum (aciction), steve baltes (stand ready), sunday club (paladian dawn), oxyd (twisted kingdom), phony orphants (black sheep, petanque...), x-dream (no guilt trips, the frog, create your own happiness...), soul surfer (sparkling bed of diamonds, highest drop, water world, ...)...
sylvester (do you wanna funk, you make me feel), donna summer (i feel love, sunset people), blondie (heart of glass, call me...), indeep (last night a dj saved my life), lipps inc (funky town), bee gees (you should be dancing), divine (shoot your shot), boney m (sunny, rasputin, daddy cool,...)...
duran duran (planet earth, girls on film, sound of thunder...), the smiths (what difference does it make), new order (blue monday), simple minds (love song, i travel, new gold dream,...), the the (this is the day), the psychedelic furs (forever now, mr jones, love my way,...), a flock of seagulls (i ran, the more you live the more you love, the tube,...), joan jett (i love rock&roll), martha & the muffins (echo beach), the hundred in the hands (undressed in dresden, young aren't young, commotion,...), metronomy (the bay, the look), manu dibango, and some traditional music (irish, romanian,...), and too many others to list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to be happier, how to help others be happier
On a typical Friday night I am
Home, after a run maybe, having a nice dinner either with my son or watching videos about psychology or the Electric Universe.
You should message me if
you want to go surfing or running or roller skating or anything similar together, or talk. I don't see Likes, please send a message and I'll reply.