35Fort Myers, United States
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My self-summary
Ever since being adopted at 4 years old from South Korea, I've been something of a square peg in a round hole, but it doesn't get me down if I can help it.

I get down with the geeky-folk, and non geek alike though I prefer the former most of the time because they usually get me. It goes to follow that I am interested in geeky pasttimes like Chess, liking Bill Paxton too much, & typography to name a scant few.

I'm looking for a woman who often projects a humorous flair for the dramatic, and is comfortable enough in her own skin to be immune to inane offenses due to arbitrary sensibilities. There's nothing more attractive to me than a woman that can switch gears from discussing about how much of a depressing dude Robert Frost was to new astronomical findings to why various phallic items are hilarious without blinking an eye. Simply put - a girl that is fun, knows how to have fun, & can throw her weight around the mental ring with zest.

I spend most of my off-hours chillin' at home with my cat/close-knit circle of wonderful friends doing the normal time-killing stuff we humans love, or maybe watching yet another documentary, reading something, mixing music, writing, drawing, or planning something big. You could say I'm a pretty right-brained individual, and consequently always get along with/adore the dreamers, artists, and creatives I meet along the way.

As much of a homebody as I am, but also equally down to travel and randomly adventure (ideally, on a random second's notice).
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently living & working in the Fort Myers area with my little cat, James Earl Jones.

To quote & quote pay the bills, I dayjob as a chemical tech. I also do freelance as a visual designer/design consultant whenever possible.

I think I have finally found that oft-fabled average of contentedness with my life in all its boring glory, and so I guess that supposedly means I'm truly ready to enrich someone's life with said boring-ness and vice versa.
I’m really good at
1) Knowing obscure song lyrics & factoids
2) Games
3) Working with animals
4) Overeating
5) Laughing at the "wrong" time
6) Coming up with witty responses long after its relevance has passed.
7) Napping
9) Relaxing & being relaxed
The first things people usually notice about me
My epicanthic folds, A.K.A., chinky eyes. [From Tongue-in-cheek, sic.]
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - I love them. A lot. Tao Te Ching, Wuthering Heights, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, The Catcher in the Rye, The Fountainhead, The Life of Pi, Where the Red Fern Grows, Dune, Stranger in a Strange Land, LotR Trilogy, books on eastern philosophy - I enjoy the work of Krishnamurti, Thich Nhat Hanh, & Alan Watts, biographies & memoirs.

Star Wars (Empire > RotJ!!!) , Chasing Amy, The Professional, Casino, The Breakfast Club, The Neverending Story, Waking Life, Amelie, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, American Beauty, The Shawshank Redemption, Almost Famous, Labyrinth, Aliens, Oldboy, Sin Nombre, Ip Man


Music: Is life. Going without it has marked negative physical effects on me. True story.

Classic Rock
90's Alt. Rock/indie/other rock
Six things I could never do without
Passion .
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The Universe
On a typical Friday night I am
Saving the world via discussion somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Soylent Green is people.
You should message me if
*You actually read all these words
*You're a creative/intelligent/free-spirited type
*You know the difference between and vehemently enforce the correct usage of English homophones such as 'you're & your', and 'too, two, & to'.
*You like artists, musicians, writers, nerds, dreamers, and other creators.
*Your sense of humor could be deemed offensive in a lot of places
*You hate hate
The two of us