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My self-summary
** I am entering a healing phase and am interested in healing sessions with massage (i'm interested in training in Shiatsu soon), counseling trades, dance, singing, nudity, swimming, yoga, and/or sex. let me know if you have an interest in any or all of that. 🙏☸☯️♋️

My profile is a mishmash of several years of coffee sundays, teetering highs and chasm waxing-- it's kinda ridiculous. Feel free to message me if you have anything to add. An image, a light, a concept.

That being said, I'm available for Okc profile optimization.

Let us go then, you and I,
When the evening is spread out against the sky
Like a patient etherised upon a table;
Let us go, through certain half-deserted streets,
The muttering retreats
Of restless nights in one-night cheap hotels
And sawdust restaurants with oyster-shells:
Streets that follow like a tedious argument
Of insidious intent
To lead you to an overwhelming question …
Oh, do not ask, “What is it?”
Let us go and make our visit.

In the room the women come and go
Talking of Michelangelo.


ANFP: Still water runs deep, but occasionally is not so still.

"Bay Area native and damn fuckin proud. And before you ask me if/why I've never lived anywhere else just remember, you probably moved from your home to mine." -esseff87

👻/ig: cadenced
What I’m doing with my life
I counsel people on issues they would like support around.

i recently got back from a zen monastery I was living at for the summer.

i think about the place i live a lot. i bike. i watch movies, i think warmly about swimming in cold water. i think hot springs are pretty cool.

I've been interested for a long time in continuuuing on in documentary, anthropology, and/or telling ghost stories in south america. now i generally desire a sort of nomad way of life with bases and friends, psychology, and lots of sumptuous images.

there's a beautiful beach, just off the highway and just south of monterey, that is composed of half-golfball-sized stones.
The first things people usually notice about me
my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
En un beso, sabrás todo lo que he callado.

non fiction, articles on the internet, science fiction...

i read and write poetry, just for myself.


i love art films, studied and love documentaries.

album on power play for week of 9/28: http://open.spotify.com/album/2ERmZRvjDFu2yMTuK2UjuA


sing it: tren al surr...

bill callahan and the chili peppers

"i'm good at being uncomfortable, so i can't stop changing all the time" -Fiona

i take singing classes, mostly for myself.

shows of note: crooked vultures, the bad plus, smashing pumpkins, nine inch nails farewell show, sharon jones, fiona apple,

tren al suuurr...

i worked in nice restaurants serving and bartending for some time, so i know a bit about food and beer. and a lot about wine.
i'm into source, whole foods.
The six things I could never do without
various love, touch
screens of light
fruits and veggies
conversational poetry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
suuuuhhhhhnnnnnnnnsssshhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiayyyyyyyayayayayihhhiiiiiiiiiiyiiyiiiyiiinnnnnnnnneeeeeegggghhhhh. (beat for inhale) sweeeeeeeeeet loooooove bahhhhyyyyyyyee the booaaarrrdddd.

old wooden ships, computers, service, pateando piedras, wine, the internet, buenos aires and paraguay, food, health, land, sex,

‘Derby Day, Henley Regatta, Cowes, the twelfth of August, a cup final, the dog races, the pin table, the dart board, Wensleydale cheese, boiled cabbage cut into sections, beetroot in vinegar, nineteenth-century Gothic churches and the music of Elgar’
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i am enchanted with one on one interactions. they're almost all i do. i do think, however, that i need more group activity to contrast the intensity.

here's a wall i throw stuff on: cadence.tumblr.com
You should message me if
"Slapstick thinker with refined sensibilities seeks a saint-like sinner with insanely cool style for a long-distance joyride towards the outskirts of Nirvana. Established meditation practice and a good bedside manner are desirable. Would it be too much to ask that you might also have a high level of emotional intelligence without boring me to death with your maturity? Is it possible that you'll be an entertaining talker who also knows how to listen with your wild heart turned up all the way? Let's keep reinventing ourselves forever."

and you dance. nothing fancy. but maybe sometimes as if your movement sustains the dharma of the world.

everything is important.