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My self-summary
IG: NicKleaver


I was born and raised in the Bay. Not a thug, not a scrub, just a laid back kind of guy. I'm often told i have some country in me, but I'll let you be the judge.

I'm just like most any guy. I'm into all kinds of music, movies, food, cars, and anything else that can keep my attention. Anything specific you want to know, just ask. I'm an open book if you ask the right questions.

I'm not a club rat, not a bar fly, and not a huge blowout house party kind of guy. I don't smoke weed, don't do any drugs, and only drink socially.

I work hard for my money. 60+ hours a week at a manufacturing facility doesn't leave room for much play time, so when i get it, i grab hold and ride it until the wheels fall off.

I have three tattoos: one on each forearm and one on my right shoulder blade with more to come soon.

I'm big on family. Don't have much, but the little I have mean more to me given that they are so few. My ink is a banner of my loyalty. Family is, and always will be, key.

On a side note, I'm a talker, a conversationalist of sorts. That being said, all i ask is that if you can't hold a conversation, keep on looking. Lets not waste each others time.

My life's motto:

"while some people say to keep your standards low, so you're never disappointed, i say keep your expectations nonexistent, so everything is a surprise."
What I’m doing with my life
Although I'm generally a laborer, I'm enrolling in school for business management and finance in order to eventually open up my own business.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at reading people. Its surprising how much can be obvious about a person's mood or what's on someone's mind just by the look in their eyes or the way they carry themselves.

I'm also a writer, and as such, I'm an information sponge. I read a lot, especially if its something I'm passionate about. The result of this if my ability to always have some input.

I'm a problem solver, its what i do. A lifetime spent as a therapist for my friends and family, as well as working as a personal consultant has made me capable of overcoming nearly any obstacle.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told its the way i carry myself that catches most peoples eye first, but as for features, my eyes, my smile, and my flirtatious nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A song of fire and ice, emergency, S.A.S. Survival Guide, The Art Of War, Bushido, The Prince,

Movies: Red Dawn, SLC Punk, Sin City, My Best Friends Girl, Safe House, The Change-Up, Crazy Stupid Love, Road House, Four Brothers, Hall Pass, Horrible Bosses, The Fifth Element, Die Hard (All Of Them), Wedding Crashers, Seven, Lucky Number Sleven, Smokin' Aces, Hot Tub Time Machine,

Shows: Game Of Thrones, Burn Notice, The Walking Dead, Revolution, Guy Code, Sons Of Anarchy, American Horror Story, Justified, South Park, Doomsday Preppers, Future Weapons, Modern Marvels, How It's Made, Law & Order, Band Of Brothers, Scrubs, How i Meet Your Mother

Music: Story of the Year, Breaking Benjamin, Theory of a Dead Man, Papa Roach, ACDC, Brad Paisley, Zach Brown Band, Luke Bryant, Colt Ford, Hunter Hayes, Andre Nickatina, Mac Dre, Husalah, Jacka, Wiz Khalifa, Too Short, T-Pain,

Food: Sushi, Tacos, Pasta, Pizza, Sea Food, Chinese, BACON, Carnitas,
The six things I could never do without
1. Books
2. Tattoos
3. Music
4. Sushi
5. B.O.B.
6. Sarcasm

Definitely not in that exact order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How long until i finish paying off my house.

The next step. I can't settle, I'm simply not the type. i have a wandering eye that is always looking for a way to not only move forward, but also up, because if your not moving both up and forward, then your just ready to fall back on the mundane.

What i can do to turn a 10 year plan into a 5 year plan.

I spend a lot of time thinking about how to survive and maintain being self sufficient no matter what life throws my way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not the type to chase down a connection. Just because I stopped in and viewed your page doesn't mean that I'm entirely interested, just that you're attractive and I noticed. If you can't carry a conversation, no amount of modeling pictures will make me interested. If I DID send the first message, then you caught my eye with more than a picture.
You should message me if
You like what you read and are interested to know more.

You are interested in a challenge or just feel like having a conversation.

You're as bored as I am and figure you can entertain a random with a good topic of conversation past the simplest of pleasantries.