I take care of myself, work hard, and don't plan to relocate. I love when others are willing to take responsibility for some basic decisions without needing my every input. Submitting to others who can make the decisions is nice at times.
Who am I? I am kind, patient, curious, loving, cuddly, attentive, and sometimes primal and insatiable. I am intelligent, capable, independent, and working on improving myself. I am both serious and silly; calm and energetic; optimistic and realistic; flexible and resolute; feminine and not. I am me!
Friendly and happy in friendships and serious commitment, I tend to feel cautious and reserved when beginning new relationships. I'm a nerd with a geek side. My favorite social times are with groups of friends playing games or hanging out around a pool or firepit at night talking.
I find I am generally attracted to people who carry their weight well, are comfortable with themselves, intelligent and challenge me to be better everyday, can relate through conversation and touch, and know how to make decisions while also being able to be silly and free.
One senior cat - a pet is a lifetime commitment.
Gaming (tabletop) and socializing.
Society of Creative Anachronism (SCA) - medieval fun
Research in esoteric interests and genealogy.
Playing with various leather toys is fun too.
I'm great at cuddling and making hot cocoa!
Movies: fantasy, supernatural, superhero, action, comedy, historical
Television: Grimm, Person of Interest, and Scorpion, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., Big Bang Theory, Arrow, Flash
Netflix: Daredevil, Jessica Jones, Hemlock Grove, Sense 8
Music: soft rock, classic rock, folk, occasionally country
Food: Generally, yes.
2. Cuddles with a pet or person
How to help my students succeed and my friends be happy.
What makes the ideal connection for me?